1, don't fight with rebellious girls.
It is best not to fight hard with her during the rebellious period, but to forgive or understand, and let her experience it herself. Under your persuasion, she will understand it when she grows up. If she does something wrong, don't beat and scold, be considerate of her, and she will think quietly and gradually understand. People's thoughts will mature with growth, and rebellious period is the necessary stage for children to grow up.
2. Put down your airs and be a "strategist" for girls' growth.
Adolescent rebellious girls will inevitably have more resistance to their parents' authority. Therefore, when a girl is fighting for independence, her parents should not suppress her for various reasons, because it is easy to arouse her rebellious heart; On the contrary, take a step back, be a girl's "mentor" and help her make suggestions to realize her desire for independence. She will be grateful to you.
3. Let children learn to care about each other.
When parents ask questions and interfere with their children's actions, they should directly express their worries and worries and let their children know their parents' love. Some parents try their best to suppress their anger, ask the reason calmly, and explain that they are anxious and worried because they don't know why you came home late. I hope you can understand their love and difficulty from the perspective of your parents and come back early in the future.
I believe that after listening to these words, sensible children will feel guilty and self-reproach for their parents' uneasiness caused by their lateness, and will not have conflicts and conflicts with their parents' interference.
Children's rebellious period must be well guided. Fang Ya Education has professional psychologists and adolescent education experts to guide and solve children's rebellious problems anytime and anywhere. But also can eliminate children's vigilance, which is more conducive to solving problems.
The girl's performance in the rebellious period:
1, don't like studying, like dressing up. The performance of adolescent girls' rebellion is that they have no intention to study. She is not listening to the education of teachers and parents, nor studying hard. I began to care about some fashionable things, and even began to like dressing up to attract the attention of other opposite sex. My heart is completely absent from my study. Take a negative attitude towards learning.
2. Personality change. The most intuitive manifestation of adolescent girls' rebellion lies in the change of personality. Began to resist the demands of parents and teachers and refused to obey. Pursuing the so-called freedom and equality, I don't want to be an obedient child. From a well-behaved child to a child who no longer listens. There is a big gap in personality.
3, very self. The trouble that adolescent girls are prone to make is that they are very self-centered. It is more reflected in the idea of "I am right". Uncontrolled by parents, I like to indulge myself. I always have problems with my parents because of some small things. I have my own ideas and feel that my parents can't understand me. Even very disgusted with the communication of parents.
I don't like being lectured. "I am the master of my affairs!" "I don't want to let you tube! This is the voice of their resistance. I feel that my elders' education and suggestions are wordy, and I don't discuss with my elders if I have any questions.
5, deliberately sing the opposite. The school doesn't allow perming and dyeing hair, but she wants to dye it yellow, challenging the authority of the school teacher.