High school students' educational methods and methods 1: goal motivation method
What is the goal motivation in learning based on? A rising tide lifts all boats? Help high school students design learning goals, stimulate their enthusiasm, and make them climb higher knowledge peaks. Facts have proved that practical learning plan goals can push people up. Therefore, parents should make realistic learning goals according to the learning foundation, endurance and actual needs of senior high school students. The goals set for them can be based on a material reward that they are particularly concerned about, and the children's needs can be decomposed into small goals in stages. Every time you achieve a small goal, you get one step closer to the prize you want, and at the same time, you will continue in the process of achieving your goal? Come on? Encourage them to walk up like stairs. In order to make high school students have a goal in mind, parents can make a list of their scores and intuitively reflect their scores in each exam and test on the coordinates with curves, so that students and parents can see at a glance. In this way, they can intuitively see their progress and develop in the direction expected by their parents.
Method 2: ideological guidance method
Although high school students have basically lost the childishness of junior high school students, they are not as mature as adults. They are energetic, curious and motivated. At the same time, because their ideological development is not stereotyped, they still have great plasticity. Therefore, when educating senior high school students, families should closely contact their thoughts and guide them in terms of will, morality and law-abiding. We can try to guide high school students to pay attention to the severe employment and economic problems in the present society in advance, so that they can realize the importance of learning with an equal exchange attitude, thus generating the motivation for learning. Guiding education should not be confined to reasoning at home, but should be good at it? Combination? 、? Infiltration? The combination of family guidance permeates the life, hot news and events around high school students, so that they can understand their parents' educational purpose in a natural communication state.
Method 3: Image Appeal Method
Educational practice has proved:? It's better to be good than shout it out. ? Many high school students have excellent academic performance, honesty, diligence and courtesy, which is the result of school and social education, but more importantly, good family education and the exemplary role of parents have a strong appeal to their healthy growth. Therefore, parents should first do what they say and emphasize goal orientation.
Method 4: Sincere consultation.
As the saying goes? Know your son like a father? . Parents should talk in time about the psychological and ideological problems exposed by senior high school students at different times and for different reasons. What should parents do in their daily life? Sanqin? That is, to understand the ideological reflection of high school students in their studies; Observe their psychological state in learning; Diligent in heart-to-heart, dredge children's thoughts in time. Besides, when parents talk to high school students, they shouldn't just tell them? How? And make them understand why? Do this? Persuade high school students to choose suitable occasions in a heart-to-heart way, so as to achieve better results.
Method 5: life adjustment method
Strong physique and full spirit are the basic conditions for doing a good job in learning. Parents should pay attention to scientific methods, adjust the life of high school students, let them eat happily under limited conditions, and create an environment conducive to giving full play to their intellectual advantages. Parents should take advantage of holidays and breaks to spend more time with high school students and listen carefully to their feelings. When dealing with the problems or mistakes of senior high school students, we must fully understand and tolerate them.
First, we should pay attention to the physical and psychological characteristics of children.
1. When parents educate their children, they don't understand the law of their children's psychological development in this period, ignore their independence, and go too far, which will also cause their children's resentment.
Teenagers are in adolescence. They think they are adults and can distinguish right from wrong correctly, so they think they should be able to decide their own affairs without their parents? Vilti. Yes But parents don't think so. In our eyes, no matter how old their children grow up, they are their own children after all, and there is always a feeling of unease about them. Therefore, when things happen, you always have to arrange them in detail and explain them clearly before you can rest assured, but I don't know that all this is just a nagging performance in the eyes of children. They feel that their parents are annoyed and troublesome, and they feel annoyed in their hearts, and rebellious psychology follows.
2. Parents' improper educational methods for children for a long time are the main reasons for children's rebellious psychology.
In some families, parents mainly adopt strict educational methods when educating their children, and some parents even adopt them? Bonzi education? Think? A dutiful son is born under the stick? . This kind? Strict? Our educational methods may still be quite useful when children are young. After all, children were still young and not sensible at that time. However, when children grow up, their sense of independence begins to increase, and the way of educating their parents begins to change from childhood? Afraid? 、? Compromise? Develop into? Disgusting? Rebellious psychology followed.
3. Parents don't understand the actual situation of their children, and they expect too much from their children and are too strict.
? Expect your son to succeed and your daughter to succeed? It is the expectation of every family. But some parents don't understand their children's preferences and force them to learn something they don't like at all, or some parents impose their unfulfilled wishes on their children. When children can't meet their expectations, they will be furious and even beat and scold. These behaviors are easy to cause children's rebellious psychology.
Second, what should be done to educate children? Four hearts?
So-called? Four hearts? It is to make children full of self-confidence, be persistent and patient in education, and be hard on children.
1, so that children are full of confidence.
That is, children should always be encouraged in education. Anyone who doesn't want to listen to praise, let alone children, even adults, is often called appreciation education, which can enhance children's self-confidence and help improve their enthusiasm for learning. In this way, they also have the energy to study.
2. Education should have perseverance and patience.
Teach children to persevere, and never get cold once. Our parents are generally busy and may not have time to take care of them, but I think we must overcome difficulties and talk to our children often. After all, children are our future, which is related to their lives. In addition, be patient. Many parents expect too much from their children and are impatient when they can't educate their children effectively.
3. Be cruel to children.
This is what I want to say most. Nowadays, many children are only children, and grandparents are reluctant to part with them, and so are their parents. They always spoil their babies. At home, it is the little emperor and princess, who is spoiled and lives a life of clothes to reach for food, not to mention making children suffer. In the countryside, you don't even have to help them empty their oil bottles. This is actually not good. I think it is beneficial to give children some labor at the right time. For me. Reeducation through labor? Only in labor can adults realize the hardships of labor and the difficulty of making money. Only when they have experienced it personally can they know that the fruits of labor are hard-won. On the other hand, they can really feel the pain of finding a job. The results show that the effect is obvious.
Third, do a good job of home-school contact.
As parents, we should always keep in touch with the school teachers, understand the children's situation, and give timely education and correction.
I want to sum it up in nine words, that is. Watch, listen and talk often? Come to school often, especially now there is no class on Saturday and Sunday. You really have to come and see what they are doing, what they need and what they are thinking. Always listen to teachers' opinions and comments on children, and know in time what changes have taken place in children's study and life during this period, so as to make a good response. It is often said that talking to children often, communication is the key. Keep abreast of their ideological trends and help them refer to and correct them. At the same time, it is also warming their hearts and letting them know that gratitude is the best result.
High school children's education methods make them feel the dedication and love of their parents and cultivate their sense of gratitude.
Many children take their parents' devotion and love for granted and don't need gratitude and return. Lack of gratitude to parents is an important reason for children's disobedience. In my opinion, it is necessary for children to feel the dedication and love of their parents, and it is necessary to cultivate their sense of gratitude. Let children learn how to manage money and form the habit of recording income and expenditure. The new era requires us to learn how to be a man, how to do things, how to cooperate, and how to manage money. Learning to manage money means learning to plan your life. Financial management will benefit you a lot in your life. Let children take part in some labor, work hard to make money, and understand that money is hard to come by and must be obtained through labor. This will help to develop the habit of thrift and help to cultivate children's sense of gratitude. Having a grateful heart is a powerful guarantee for family education to achieve ideal results.
Combining tolerance with strict requirements to cultivate children's sense of responsibility
For thousands of years, parents have educated their children and teachers have educated their students. What is the most talked about? Strict requirements? . Indeed, strict requirements play an important role in promoting children's healthy growth, allowing children to develop according to the ideal model of adults and avoid detours. There are many successful examples in this regard. But right? Strict requirements? The negative impact. It makes children accustomed to acceptance, unable to think critically, losing their individuality and weak sense of innovation, and even some children are depressed, withdrawn and lose their innocence prematurely. Therefore, I think the education of children should be strict and more tolerant. Strict is not harsh and demanding, but strict and moderate, strict and orderly, strict and reasonable. Tolerance does not mean indulgence, laissez-faire, ignoring children's problems and forgiving all their mistakes. Tolerance is more about emotional and spiritual tolerance for children, so that children can have a healthy mentality and receive strict education in a relaxed environment.
Democratic and equal communication, cultivate children's sense of independence
This period is psychologically called. Psychological weaning period? . Children in this period are mainly manifested in their growing desire for independent activities. However, due to their lack of life experience, they can't correctly understand their self-esteem, and they just urge others to treat themselves as adults. Parents should respect their children's self-esteem and support them as much as possible, especially when they encounter difficulties and failures, communicate with them equally, help them analyze things, distinguish right from wrong and handle them correctly. Parents should not indulge their children's unreasonable demands and bad behaviors too much, in case their children always threaten their parents in a rebellious way in the future to achieve their own goals. For more serious resistance behavior, parents can use the method of reward training to strengthen their children's obedience behavior.