The education of children is a problem that every parent must face. How to make children grow up healthily and happily is a problem that every parent needs to think about. This paper will provide some useful suggestions from three aspects: unconditional love, respect and growth thinking.

Unconditional love

Unconditional love is the cornerstone of children's growth. We need to tell our children with our words and deeds that no matter what you do, we will always love you. When we say "I don't want you if you don't listen to me", children will think that love is conditional. Children are most afraid of being abandoned One such experience may make them feel "I'm not good enough". Unconditional love is to let them deeply realize that no matter what their grades are, no matter whether they are obedient or not, we are always there.

Be respected

Being respected is a necessary condition for children to grow up. We need to instill a sense of value so that every child feels unique. Like seeds, we fertilize and water them without disturbing their growth. Guide rather than suppress, so that children can grow up happily.

Growth thinking

Growth thinking is a necessary condition for successful education and training of children. When praising children, pay attention to their efforts rather than cleverness. Describe the phenomenon rather than simply praise, such as "I saw you review until 3 o'clock for the exam, which is a good quality." When eating independently, we can say "Mom is so happy to eat alone".