The answer is no. Of course, soft-hearted parents can't educate their children. Moreover, soft-hearted parents have a common problem. When children are crying, they tend to be soft-hearted and compromise their demands and irrationality. Such tenderness and compromise are not good for children, but will make children have a wrong idea that my parents can meet my needs when I cry. In the process of compromise again and again, children take the initiative in choosing. Moreover, many parents will lose the excellent opportunity to educate their children because they are soft-hearted, so they must not be soft-hearted in this part of educating their children.

Children should learn to be independent when they go out to study. At this time, parents are soft-hearted and leave their children around, and the children lose the opportunity to learn to be independent. Many times, parents think their children are too fragile. For example, children can't take care of themselves when they live alone, or they are easily bullied when they live on campus. Blindly leaving the child around, although it protects the child in some ways, because of this protection, the child loses the opportunity to contact the outside world and some social skills.

Children learn to be independent when they grow up, which is a process that children must go through when they grow up. If parents regard this process as too dangerous and soft-hearted, their children's growth will also be lacking. Don't keep children from touching things just because they are young. If this concept persists for a long time, it will be difficult for children to learn to accomplish something independently. Over time, they will have a strong dependence on their parents and cannot get rid of it. Children will feel that they can't do anything well without their parents.

When a child wants a toy but can't get it, he begins to cry. Parents will buy toys for their children because they are soft-hearted, but this is actually a wrong way of education. This kind of compromise again and again will make children unreasonable. Your own weakness is not for the sake of your child's future, but a wrong solution when the situation is out of control.