First, disrespect for children.
For example, some parents dreamed of learning piano and becoming an outstanding pianist when they were young. As a result, because the conditions do not allow their dreams to be shattered, they will impose this idea on their children. Whether children like the piano or not, whether they are suitable for playing it or not, they only know how to force them to study blindly. Doing so will not only fail to achieve the expected results, but will make children have rebellious psychology and even affect normal learning.
Second, it will only increase the trouble.
This kind of parents' practice is usually adding to the children's difficulties, because the children may not meet their expected standards, and parents will feel very headache, and then constantly increase the pressure on their children, and then they will become more irritable. To put it simply, I put a chain on myself, and it is very difficult to escape.
Third, let children lose themselves.
Imposing one's ideals on children may affect their character and even make them lose themselves. Because children always follow the path arranged by their parents, they have no own ideas and cannot act according to their own preferences. In the long run, they are used to listening to their parents' arrangements, and they will be people without ideas when they enter society in the future.
This kind of professional parent education is a complete misunderstanding, which is not only inappropriate, but also affects the growth of children. When parents train their children, they must give them enough space and choices. Children are independent individuals and have never been the accessories of their parents. Parents must communicate with their children more and understand their inner thoughts, which is conducive to the parent-child relationship and the healthy growth of children.