How to teach children selfishness and laziness?
1. Create a shared family atmosphere.
Parents should start with the food that their children care about most. If the child is exclusive, parents must bring food and distribute it fairly, and they can't be alone. At first, children may cry and beg, but parents must not give in and insist. It is normal to "relapse" occasionally. As long as parents insist, they will be able to correct it.
It is appropriate to meet children's requirements.
Reasonable requirements for children can be properly met, and children who cannot be met in time should be taught to wait, but they should not be too accommodating. Even if the child is tenacious, parents should insist on being correct and don't leave room for the child. Once you compromise, your child will know that there will be another chance, so parents must be cruel, persistent, patient and determined to stick to it.
3. Guide children to understand others.
Parents can deliberately create some setbacks, that is, opportunities to hit a nail, timely education and guidance, so that children understand that selfishness is unpopular behavior. Only friendship and mutual assistance can win everyone's love. For example, encourage children to participate in cooperative game activities, guide children to feel the pleasure of respecting, helping and humility others, and learn to control their irrational emotions.
4. Help children to establish the most glorious concept of labor.
Let the children take the initiative to help the big family in their daily lives, such as helping their parents clean, wash their faces and wash their own clothes. Seriously fulfill the responsibilities of the school, do not rely on others, actively participate in various labor and hiking activities organized by the school, exercise your will and hone your endurance.
Parents should set an example.
In daily life, no matter what you do, you should care for each other, especially the elders, and set a good example for your children. In the long run, the same qualities and behaviors will reappear in your children.