In order to work wholeheartedly, some parents send their children to boarding schools from primary school, which not only saves the trouble of adults, but also helps them learn to live independently early. This seems to be a perfect way, but it costs more living expenses! However, the child grew up and was not close to his parents, and his parents regretted it. Your children are not close to you, and your children don't understand at all. Children ask you for living expenses, and they usually have nothing to say. The parent-child relationship is too weak. Parents are absent when it's time to accompany them, and parents can't integrate when children grow up and have their own world!
In some rural families, parents simply leave their starving children to the elderly in order to go out to work. Old people have limited energy and can only take care of their children to eat and drink and send them to school. They can't educate their children correctly and let them become left-behind children without discipline. There is one in our village. The husband and wife have two children, the eldest of whom is less than one year old. The husband and wife go out to work, work on the construction site, and only go home once a year. A family of six people has to rely on husband and wife to support themselves, and the pressure is great. However, children have become victims. For a long time, he didn't see his parents, lived with his grandparents and didn't listen to the old man. After a long time, the child became a famous little demon in the village. Due to the long-term lack of parental care, his character has been distorted. Older children don't eat it every day, but take money out to buy snacks at home, and children eat it regularly. My parents didn't care, but they still worked outside all the year round to earn money. This is a left-behind child without parents!
Are the above two kinds of children without their parents happy? Obviously, they are unhappy. Of course there are exceptions. Some children have a capable and caring grandmother who can take good care of their children. For example, there is a TV series "Our Love", in which the grandmother is such a smart, capable and responsible old man. She is so patient with her little granddaughter and loves her very much. In The Origin of Family, the little girl was hurt too much. After her parents divorced, she became a helpless child. It was her grandmother who took good care of her, protected her and took care of her, and the children had a happier childhood, which made the audience envy her for having such a well-educated, educated and dignified grandmother!
But there are not many such old people in life. In today's China society, it is very common for the elderly to take care of their children. However, if children's family education can't be disciplined, it can't be textured! Parents don't pay much attention to whether children are happy or not! Compared with the previous generation, childhood has material advantages, but it is more profound in spirit. Children only have one childhood. With more companionship and care, children will thank you for a lifetime!