It seems inappropriate to take his daughter into the men's room, and it is even more impossible for a father to follow his daughter to the women's room.
A father took his two-year-old daughter for a walk in the park in Nantong, Jiangsu. Seeing a bathroom, he thought about going to the bathroom, fearing that no one outside would see his daughter get lost.
So I took my daughter to the men's room. The two-year-old daughter walked to the door of the toilet, saw that it was a men's toilet, shook off her father's hand, and turned and ran. While running, he called me not to. I am a girl. How to accompany dad to the toilet?
Dad chased his daughter and tried to drag her into the toilet. The two-year-old daughter is eloquent. Dad: You are such a big man. If you want to go to the bathroom, won't you go by yourself?
The father and daughter chatted for a long time, and the child was sweating and kept sayingno. Seeing this video resonated with many netizens.
Many parents of the opposite sex will encounter such embarrassing situations from time to time when taking their children out.
This little video also made us realize that it is still very useful to educate children about gender from an early age.
Two-year-old girls are gender-conscious, which shows that their parents' usual education is in place. Many parents think that children are young and don't know anything.
In fact, children have many instincts when they are born. They can drink milk and find something to eat by themselves. Even children begin to be curious about boys and girls when they are over one year old. Parents should instill gender awareness in their children at this time and let them know that men and women are different.
For example, a one-year-old child asks his mother, mother, am I a boy or a girl, and the mother can clearly tell the child that you are a girl. This is actually a kind of gender education.
Before the child is three years old, let the child know his biological gender, whether it is a boy or a girl.
You can also tell children through books what is the difference between a boy's body and a girl's body?
Let children know the difference between men and women, and then get along with the opposite sex will keep a certain distance.
Parents must try to avoid important parts when taking pictures of their children.
Let children have privacy awareness from an early age;
For example, don't wear open-backed pants for children, which is actually cultivating children's privacy awareness.
Don't take nude photos of children. Even sharing it with friends or online is taboo.
It is not recommended that children take a bath with heterosexual parents after they are three years old.
Don't stereotype gender;
For example, boys can only play with cars and girls can only play with dolls. In fact, gender boundaries are not divided in this way.
Boys can play with dolls, maybe they can be designers in the future, girls can also play with cars, and maybe they can be engineers in the future.
As parents, we should cultivate from the following aspects:
1. Talk to children since childhood.
The so-called chat is not what the mother said herself, but also uses some exaggerated expressions to make the children realize that the mother is chatting with you as much as possible.
2. Cultivate children's reading habits from an early age.
Look at some patterns on the baby. Bright books interest children in colors. Read some books with more pictures and fewer words slowly, so that children can understand the contents of the books. When you grow up with college pinyin, you can buy some phonetic books for your children to learn by themselves.
3. Consider giving children some speech contests.
Girls' strong language skills will be more helpful to their future work.
Find a third toilet, or a place where men and women share toilets.
Some hotel restaurants will have toilets shared by men and women, so that children can rest assured that their father can close the door outside. Or there will be disabled people in some places, and the toilets are also divided into men and women.
When children are young, try to use diapers, so that children don't have to worry about finding toilets when they go out, and adults can drink less water.
Dad can consider using a longer anti-lost belt.
When dad goes to the toilet, hold the child in the nearby toilet with an anti-lost belt, so don't worry about the child getting lost.
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