How to deal with children's rebellious period, not only adolescent children are prone to rebellious psychology, but many children's rebellious psychology is more serious, which makes many parents at a loss and don't know how to deal with it. Let's share how to deal with children's rebellious period.

How to deal with children's rebellious period 1 methods to deal with children's rebellious psychology

1, cooling mode

When children have rebellious psychology and strong emotions, parents should not be angry, and they should not "point the needle at the wheat" and be willful, otherwise it will add fuel to the fire. The correct way is to treat him coldly and ignore his willfulness.

2. Warm method

Parents should respect, understand, care, encourage and trust their children, communicate with them often, and be his intimate person. Once he is found to have made small progress, he will be affirmed and encouraged in time.

3. Stimulation method

It is necessary to master the child's competitive psychology and motivate him with rebellious psychology. If you consciously say, "You won't get dressed, will you?" "You won't make polite remarks, will you?" .

4. Mental health care law

It is helpful to guide children to know themselves objectively, overcome subjectivity and one-sidedness, cultivate good emotions and exercise will, enhance self-control ability and promote the healthy development of children's psychology.

Brief introduction of rebellious psychology

Rebellious psychology refers to a psychological state in which people take opposite attitudes and words and deeds to each other's demands in order to maintain their self-esteem. Teenagers often find themselves "uneducated" and "disobedient" and often "confront" educators. This kind of behavior, which is contrary to common sense and shows his "cleverness" and "transcendence" in an abnormal psychological state, often comes from "rebellious psychology"

Children of this age are the most rebellious. They are often emotional, simple-minded, and easily opposed to social morality, code of conduct and parents' requirements. Children will have rebellious psychology, which is usually caused by improper parental education methods. This shows that many parents lack understanding of children, are not good at dealing with children, and don't understand what children really need.

The causes of children's rebellious psychology

1, unrealistic expectations

Nowadays, most parents are eager to see their children succeed. They often ignore their own qualities and abilities, their hobbies and hobbies, force their children to accept their own blueprints and force them to do things that are difficult to do at the moment. The result can only be counterproductive, or even nothing. This kind of practice is easy to arouse children's opposition.

2, too strict, damage the child's self-esteem.

Now, some parents are still full of the concept of "conquering the enemy without fighting". It is considered that "strictness" is corporal punishment, and children's self-esteem is rarely considered. They expose their children's shortcomings in front of outsiders at will, even cynically, and sometimes use force against them.

3. Restrain children's curiosity

Children's exploration psychology is particularly strong, and the world is full of mystery and surprise for them. Adults are used to things they don't agree with. They have to ask, play and touch, and sometimes they will inevitably get into trouble. If parents don't understand their children's curiosity and think it's nonsense, it will naturally cause their children's dissatisfaction.

4, repeated nagging, causing boredom

When some parents educate their children, they keep talking for fear that they will not listen. If children are in this "marathon" preaching environment for a long time, they will have psychological barriers.

The performance of children's rebellious psychology

1, with a big temper

Perhaps it is because parents talk too much in high school and treat them as children, which leads to adolescent children becoming irritable.

2. Suspicious, withdrawn and introverted

These children's performances are closely related to family education, which is more common in families with serious disharmony in family atmosphere, strong parents and few opportunities for children to handle things alone.

3, excitable, love to express themselves

Liking to express oneself is the most common psychological activity of teenagers. Young people are in a period of character formation and self-seeking. By denying authority and being unconventional, they can seek psychological satisfaction of self-affirmation.

4. There are strong objections.

Oppose for the sake of opposition, don't wear this dress, don't wear that dress; No expectant mother goes to the toilet, no expectant mother eats, and no expectant mother talks. Unreasonable or even absurd demands have repeatedly touched the bottom line of parents.

How to deal with children's rebellious period 2 How to communicate with children's rebellious period

1, respect children and don't make moral evaluation. Parents should not be too strict. Once their children are rebellious, they will be labeled as "disobedient" or even "online". In the process of communicating with children, use such words less to reduce children's rebellious psychology.

2, more understanding, more tolerance. Rebellion is a necessary life process for everyone. Put yourself in others' shoes. Parents have had youth before, and it is understandable that children are in a rebellious period. Let children fully feel the tolerance of their parents, which is conducive to the emotional precipitation of children and reduce unnecessary verbal collisions.

Stop and listen to the children. Children in the rebellious period often have many unspeakable feelings in their hearts, and their parents may ignore their emotional demands in their busy lives and work. In fact, only by telling and communicating can children and parents establish a more trusting relationship. Parents can help their children ease their emotions by communicating with them on an equal footing and giving them advice from the perspective of an experienced person.

4. Find someone whose children are sure to inspire you. Boys and girls will have someone to talk to. If the rebellious child can't communicate well with his parents, he can find someone he trusts to communicate with him in another way. This may be better than forcing children to communicate with their parents. ...

When is the rebellious period of the child?

The ancients said that "looking at the old at the age of three" actually talked about the education in the first rebellious period of life. Every child will go through a rebellious period, and there is more than one rebellious period. Children who have experienced a rebellious period are like buds that have experienced wind and rain, and grow into flowers that take root and sprout in the soil. Mothers don't have to worry too much about their children's rebellion, find out their age and performance during the rebellious period, and be aware of the rebellious baby.

1, the first rebellious period: 8 months of irritability, you feel strange.

Everyone loves the baby very much, but at this time, as long as anyone other than the mother approaches, they all keep a straight face, indicating that the baby has entered the first rebellious period.

2. The first rebellious period: from two and a half to three years old, self-awareness is budding.

At this time, the baby's self-awareness germinated rapidly, but now more and more babies begin to show rebellion before the age of one. Because today's children are more and more intelligent, parents are more and more cautious about their children's education, and children become more sensitive.

In this period, the performance of the baby's rebellion is "beating people", and they will express their opposition and "no" consciousness through this behavior. This period is the earliest period of separation between children and parents. He began to form his own thoughts and attitudes and felt the joy of being separated from others.

3. The second rebellious period: 7-9 years old, quasi-adulthood.

At this stage, children's rebellious performance is different from that of infancy. They will feel a little adult. On the one hand, children become willful and unreasonable, and everything is against their parents. On the other hand, he is very dependent on his parents, loves to cry and is very delicate.

What are the reasons for children's rebellious period?

The child became a little naughty when he was three years old. If someone told him to go east, he would go west. If you tell him what to do, he will do the opposite with his parents. If your baby is like this, it means that he has entered a rebellious period. Although many parents themselves have experienced a rebellious period, they actually don't understand it. What are the reasons for children's rebellious period? In fact, most of the reasons are family and environment.

1. The child was in the process of exploring the world when he was three years old. Children at this time are simply curious about how the baby is. Touch the east or the west. When parents see such children, they may educate them and further encourage them to rebel.

Although the child is still young, he has self-esteem at this age. If parents criticize him in front of many people, or beat him easily, it will also cause children's rebellion.

Some parents care too much about their children and always have endless words to tell them. When you speak, you are criticizing the children. Listening to too much will inevitably lead to rebellion.

Busy family work makes parents neglect emotional communication with their children. Parents always criticize their children and don't give them a chance to speak. Over time, children become silent and rebellious.

Parents don't respect their children, and children will treat their parents in the opposite way.

6. Parents don't lead by example, and children will express their rebellious feelings in order to vent their dissatisfaction.

How to deal with children's rebellious period 3 children's rebellious psychological solutions

First, we should respect and encourage children's reasonable resistance.

Children's reasonable resistance behavior is conducive to the development of children's independent personality and the cultivation of children's ability to analyze and solve problems.

Second, correctly understand children's rebellious behavior.

Adults should not always wear a pair of colored glasses to observe children, but should know, understand and respect children from their perspective. Children's rebellious behavior is often because children have too much demand for independence, while adults have too many restrictions on children. As the child grows up, his sense of independence is also growing, and the child's desire for independence urges him to get rid of the interference of adults. However, some parents do not understand this. They still do everything for children, which is bound to cause children's resistance.

Third, unreasonable resistance to children should be stopped and transformed.

Reasonable guidance should be given to children's unreasonable resistance, and a rude attitude should not be adopted. You can use the method of changing children's understanding, or you can use the method of cold treatment to divert attention. Of course, the ultimate goal is to change children's understanding of their total resistance.

All the above are effective ways to overcome children's rebellious psychology, and parents can try it when they encounter such problems. At the same time, in addition to paying attention to children's material needs in life, psychological needs can not be ignored, and mental health is more conducive to children's growth.

The correct way to educate children

First, teach children to solve problems by themselves.

Family is the main place where children live, and parents are their first teachers. Parents' behavior and moral behavior have a decisive influence on children's growth. In order to make children grow up healthily, parents must cultivate their frustration ability to a certain extent, and can't indulge, spoil or spoil their children.

Parents should always educate their children not to be afraid when they encounter difficulties, be mentally prepared to meet difficulties at any time, learn to use their brains, solve small things and problems around them, and overcome difficulties with wisdom. It takes a strong will to teach children to overcome difficulties. We must face up to difficulties, and we can't back down when encountering difficulties.

Second, teach children to face themselves.

In the face of setbacks, parents should teach their children to have a correct attitude, so as to turn every setback into an opportunity to exercise themselves and improve themselves. Setbacks are not obstacles, but stepping stones. After experiencing setbacks again and again in life, we can gradually mature and grow up, treat setbacks correctly in our future study and life, and increase our courage to overcome them.

Praise is inspiration, not honey pot; Criticism is an incentive, not a stimulus. We should not be complacent because of praise, then get carried away, nor should we be discouraged and lose enterprising spirit because of criticism.

Third, teach children to face their parents.

Parents all over the world want their children to be dragons and their daughters to be phoenixes. Parents will angrily criticize their children when they see their children's poor academic performance. Some children can't accept their parents' criticism and education, have conflicts with their parents, disobey their parents, and even demonstrate to them. Such children's thoughts and behaviors have reached the brink of danger. In fact, parents should educate their children that setbacks and blows are not terrible. What is terrible is that they don't know how to deal with them.

We should learn to meet setbacks and blows, and also learn to deal with them. Only those who dare to face classmates, teachers, parents, society, difficulties and ups and downs of life are truly brave people, the most remarkable people and the most admirable people.