Parents' emotional management ability directly affects the establishment of a good parent-child relationship. All parents are a carrier of education, and the temperament of children cultivated by different family cultures is different. Parents' mood breeds children's mood and temperament. In fact, sometimes children are not smart, and it is not entirely their problem. Parents' own educational methods and handling methods are also very important.

2. Parents' emotional adjustment is not good, which affects the quality and depth of family education.

How to realize the self-regulation and management of emotions is a deep-seated problem for parents. Only when parents calm down, the point of educating their children will become clear, and educators' rational thinking on education can precipitate into their hearts and become their own state. Children need their parents to nurture and protect them with good emotions. Only when parents see that their children's strengths and weaknesses are expressionless can they give their children internal growth motivation.

3. Parents' poor emotional adjustment affects children's physical and mental development.

Parents should realize that improper venting of their long-term negative emotions will bring immeasurable negative effects to their children's physical and mental development. Negative emotions will not only affect children's physical health, but also affect children's mental health, resulting in paranoia, rebellion, indifference, withdrawal and other problems. Psychoanalytic theory has long pointed out that the most basic needs of children after birth are safety and satisfaction. The long-term lack of security not only affects children's self-cognition and evaluation, but even ultimately pays the price of personality.

4. Know how to control your emotions.

Parents should consciously cultivate a sense of self-reflection on their emotional state, learn to relax themselves and let their hearts calm down. Many times, as emotional subjects, we are not very clear about our emotional state. When you find that your child's behavior is "intolerable", you should make sure that the child's behavior is really bad or that your tolerance limit is set too low. Don't ask too much of your children, especially don't put them on with the standards of adults.