Now turn on the TV and mobile phone, you can always see all kinds of "Xiong Haizi" news, most of which are boys. In order to cope with the boy's naughty, many parents use the way of beating and cursing to force discipline. In the rebellious period of children, it becomes more and more serious. So how should parents get along with these naughty boys?

1. Actively guide them to vent their energy reasonably.

When the boy began to be naughty, we knew that it was because of hormones that he was full of energy and had nowhere to vent. At this time, we should reasonably guide them to vent their energy. If he throws toys and jumps up and down at home, then we will arrange for them to ride a balance car, fly kites and swim outdoors. Instead of making a mess at home, it is better to vent boys' extra energy through exercise.

2. Develop their communication skills

Boys' language development ability is slightly behind that of girls, which is why they never say hello before they start to "go crazy". More conscious training of their communication skills, so that they can learn to solve problems through communication, rather than the body, can reduce some unnecessary troubles.

3. More "suggestive" criticisms are adopted.

Children should be criticized for doing wrong. However, many parents have gone into a misunderstanding that children don't understand anything and must listen to their parents. Criticism is not beating and cursing, but telling the truth. Let the children know where they are wrong and what bad consequences this wrong behavior will have, so that the children will readily accept the criticism of their parents.

4. Teach children to learn self-discipline

It is precisely because boys are lively and uncontrollable that parents should cultivate their children to learn self-discipline in interesting ways. Only those who are self-disciplined enough can succeed.

Boys are naughty by nature and love to get into trouble. How should parents educate them? Pay attention to these four points.

4. What other problems do parents need to pay attention to in the education of boys?

There is such a big difference between boys and girls in physiology that we can't use the same standard in education. Now that we know the boy's personality characteristics and growth rules, we should carry out differentiated education for boys on the premise of these. In the process of raising boys, there are still several problems that parents need to pay attention to.

1. Grasp the scale.

In today's society, most families have only one child, and many parents' excessive love for their children is also one of the reasons why boys become more naughty. However, some families have adopted a "high-pressure policy", which excessively suppressed the children's nature, and eventually led to the loss of their characteristics as men. Don't over-indulge, don't over-suppress, it is very important to grasp the scale of education.

Encourage more

Many people think that girls should praise more when they are obedient and worry-free, and boys should criticize more when they are naughty. In fact, boys also want to be recognized. Encourage children to behave well and give them confidence. I believe that children can become better and better in this subtle education.

3. Give boys more intimate love

Many people think it is not brave for a man to cry. Therefore, when educating boys, many parents always ask for words such as "We are little men, we can't cry" and "Don't just fall, why cry, be brave". For girls, I feel that they are naturally pampered and will give them more interaction and intimacy.

Dad's company is irreplaceable.

Fathers have a greater influence on the growth of boys than mothers. Fathers are role models for boys and are more likely to take the lead in influencing them. It is easier for sons and fathers to cultivate common interests, and it is easier for fathers and sons to understand each other's ideas, which will produce a unique way of communication between men. This is irreplaceable by mothers. Father's company is conducive to boys to develop sunny and responsible qualities.

But in fact, because boys lag behind girls in language development and lack communication skills, their emotional needs are actually greater than those of girls, and they want to be recognized and cared for by their parents.

For a long time, people have solidified a concept of parenting: boys should be raised rudely and girls should be raised gently. But in fact, the boy's naughty is not what he wants. Only by correctly understanding the reasons why boys are naughty can we train boys better.