Many times, parents like to force education and treat their children. Maybe when I was young, but when I grow up, my children have their own ideas, so I can't. You can change your opposing roles with your children. Try to be friends with your child, look at the problem from another angle, and relieve his vigilance. Walk into his world and understand his world. For example, if a child likes to play a certain mobile game, you must first understand it and try it before you can know why the child is obsessed. Sometimes you can play a few games with him, then talk about the game experience as a breakthrough, and then change.

Second, listen more, understand more and be patient.

Rebellious children also need someone to talk to. Parents who listen patiently to their children will gradually gain their understanding. You know, some big things are very important in children's eyes. So don't underestimate it. Parents help their children solve these small things that their families usually think are very important and help you understand their world.

Third, help children form good habits.

Communicate more with children, talk more about feelings and less about preaching in the process. What children hate most is their parents' teaching. Playing games or other hobbies with children is the easiest way to establish relationships. Tell me what you think of his hobbies. He recognized you. You can form good habits with him in your study and life. Please note that this is your own example. If you can't do it yourself, you can't impose it on your child.

Fourth, encourage and respect children.

Parents can't only pay attention to their children's academic performance, nor can they only pay attention to their shortcomings, which will make their children lose their self-confidence. Parents should encourage and respect their children, strive to discover their bright spots, help them achieve excellent results in their own professional fields, and enhance their self-confidence.

Fifth, care about children's circle of friends.

In the process of understanding children's circle of friends, we also need to help children screen out which friends are worth interacting with. Some children's friends are not very good at school, but they are honest and orderly. Such friends are worthy of communication; Some friends have good academic performance, but their mentality is wrong. Such a friend would rather not. When we care about our children and friends, we can't take academic performance as the standard. We should also care about moral quality and cultural accomplishment.

Sixth, reduce the pressure on children.

The learning pressure of children in grade three is very great, so it will also cause them to become irritable and irritable, and the pressure will even make them overwhelmed. At this time, parents can take their children fishing, watching scenery, watching movies, singing, playing ball games and so on. Through these methods, children's inner pressure can be relieved and children can better spend the rebellious period.

Seventh, ask for other people's opinions.

Parents should not be ashamed to ask others about educating their children. You can communicate with other excellent parents, teachers and friends. Exchange experiences with each other and broaden your thinking.