Current location - Education and Training Encyclopedia - Educational institution - Parents educate their children, but they don't.
Parents educate their children, but they don't.
Every child is like a blank sheet of paper, and his/her education and environment may affect his/her three views and lead him/her to a completely different path.

First, the influence of family environment.

As the child's first teacher, parents' behavior will subtly influence and change the child's three views, which is the so-called role model. Therefore, it is not surprising that many juvenile offenders have an unhappy family.

In many cases of juvenile delinquency, many parents have failed to fulfill their responsibilities and obligations as parents. Their behavior is outrageous, because they are born without raising, raising without teaching, and even use their children as tools for their own crimes. There are also some parents who improperly teach their children, and the wrong parenting style makes their children form a distorted three views. Step by step towards the path of deviation and rebellion.

1. Bad family environment

In this case, many children grow up in an environment where their parents take drugs or everyone in the family and small environment is involved in drug trafficking, gambling or gang activities. They were used to these things since childhood, and did not think that drug trafficking and gambling were serious illegal acts, which led to family tragedies handed down from generation to generation.

2. No one is responsible

Some parents divorced because of the emotional breakdown between the two sides. The child, once the crystallization of love, has now become the "drag bottle" of the other side. Both of them are working hard for their future happiness, but they are unwilling to look back at their past and take care of and raise their children.

Some parents go out to work, and have tried their best to make a living every day, lacking basic communication with their children. They even put their children in foster care in their hometown in the countryside and haven't seen each other for several years. Naturally, it is impossible to raise their children.

There are also some parents with low education level who don't know contraceptive measures. They give birth to children to carry on the family line, but because of poverty or various reasons, they can't be given good education and care after their children are born, and even nine-year compulsory education can't let them finish.

Children are not only small sweets that bring happiness to parents, but also parents' responsibilities and obligations. Children are people with feelings and flesh and blood. Not only the supply of money, but also the communication with parents and the care and love from relatives. As the saying goes, it is better to be kind than to be kind. Parents should take the responsibility of raising, caring and educating their children before they can be called qualified parents.

Children without moral and legal education and independent discrimination are rebellious children who are ignorant of good and evil, right and wrong, and pursue excitement and novelty. They are likely to be tempted by bad factors from outside and become the first echelon of depravity.