One: What are the syndromes that children have in the online introductory class?
Often sleepy, difficult to get up early; It is normal to fall asleep in the early morning and go to bed late; The mobile phone never leaves, doing nothing; Eyes blurred, almost no movement; Addicted to games, unbalanced diet; Lack of communication, become lazy?
As a parent, are you anxious to see your child in such a situation? There is the pain of hating iron and not turning it into steel, so you should know the root of the problem: family education and school education are derailed and contradictory.
To understand this reality clearly, we must know the relationship between family education and school education.
Second, the root of the contradiction is that family education and school education dominate each other, but this domination is not mutual? Conflict? , but a process of gradual running-in and mutual cooperation. In this process, school education is the dominant force, and other work should be carried out closely around the school, because the school carries out systematic education.
Practice has proved that it is suitable for most students in this group.
In the environment of comprehensive promotion of online teaching, there are more and more contradictions between parents and children. Children who are out of school education have no plan, no purpose, or can only go with the flow.
The nature of school education: moral education Every family has its own family style and rules. Family education actively cooperates with school education, which does not mean completely removing its own advantages. Every parent has different views on family education, and the children they teach have different personalities. Parents' cultural literacy is very different, so most of them are blind to family education and can only follow the successful example? Draw a gourd ladle Formulating rules and regulations for children completely obliterates their autonomy. Let the child's personality not be fully developed, and always let the child not cultivate autonomy. In the end, you can only be slaughtered? Mutton?
The purpose of holding parent-child friendship, parent-teacher conferences and other activities in schools is to instill educational ideas into parents, improve their quality and let moral education in schools play an active leading role.
Education and quality are different. The premise of scientific education is to grasp the characteristics of teenagers' psychological activities in time.
Two extreme modes of family education: ①. Parents impose their will on their children, hoping that their children will finish unfinished things and use their hobbies to determine their development direction.
②: Plan the life path prematurely, encourage others by pulling out the seedlings, and blindly cultivate children's hobbies before entering the campus, thus increasing their burden. Forced to get high marks in the exam and be admitted to a key university.
From the teaching experience and statistics, where do children have the most problems? Combined family? And then what? Incomplete family? . The reason is that some relationships are not handled well, which affects the growth of children, thus forming a withdrawn and paranoid personality, and sometimes even bringing incurable mental trauma to children.
The second essence of school education: management makes a scientific schedule, so that students can study and live according to their own priorities. Right? Lost watermelon and picked up sesame seeds? . During this long vacation, parents may deeply understand whether their children are really self-disciplined.
Fiona Fang's Code for Students, Code for Students' Daily Behavior and School Rules and Class Rules are all things that students should be familiar with and unconditionally implement. As a group, we should actively cooperate. At the same time, not only students but also parents should do the same.
①: If the child has a problem, report it to the teacher in time. From the heart, we should fully choose to trust teachers. If even parents are excluded, then students must be the same. Students often face such a problem when studying: children often say to their parents: I don't like XXX's teachers. Don't want to listen in class? , resulting in poor performance in every exam.
This is a typical xenophobic feature, not determined by interests.
Students must be very eager for grades, hoping to get very good grades in every subject, but this kind of interference from external factors has a great influence on him.
② It has been established in our school to attend school reception activities on time? Parent reception day? . Let parents take turns to manage classes. This is not squeezing parents' schedules, but really knowing how to educate!
Through three years' experiment, it is found that it is better for parents to manage classes by turns than for teachers.
And through this form, parents can experience their children's study life and get to know it for themselves? Tired? Feel, increase the cohesion of the collective.
③: Parents should become school administrators? Chief of staff?
Children's success is inseparable from school and family. Many parents often educate their nieces? Hit a wall? . The problem encountered is so urgent, instead of raising the tone, making the fuse hotter and hotter, and finally breaking out with the child? War? .
Education needs precipitation. A well-known school must be inseparable from years of practical operation. Parents play an important role in the specific implementation process. The most casual advice is conducive to action? Parents should be good advisers and make suggestions for running schools well.
Conclusion If thousands of families in Qian Qian can do this, on the whole, the quality of family education in China will definitely be greatly improved. It is more important for children to grow up in a healthy environment than anything else.
Online teaching is only a last resort in this short period of time, and it can only play the role of timely stop loss. Practice has proved that the promotion of education in China still depends on school education.