Of course, there is no denying that no one wants to be single. No matter now or in the past, it is human nature that anyone who lives normally in society and has a normal mind is still in a state of rejection of a single thing itself. So the reason for being single is not man-made, but external factors that lead to more single people.

Of course, it seems a bit one-sided to blame everything on external factors, but if there are more and more single people, it will naturally be a problem.

First, the pressure of survival is great and it is difficult to speak. The necessary living expenses to meet their daily needs are insurmountable obstacles for most people now, because in this society, in addition to their own personal abilities, they need the most basic support from their families.

The competitive pressure of this society does not come from the decline of competitiveness caused by a person's lack of personal ability, but from the increasing competition of this society itself.

And now, unlike before, information is constantly circulating, and everyone can learn all kinds of things that have nothing to do with their lives.

Of course, knowing more and more will lead to a certain deviation in your own cognition of yourself and the outside world, and will also lead to your own disguised desires and pursuits, which will also be contrary to your current situation.

If a person's pursuit is inconsistent with what he has done in his own life, it will lead to division and contradiction.

Second, the living environment and working environment lead to less contact opportunities. More people tend to associate with people in their existing circles on the internet, rather than having more desire to communicate and associate with others. Many people don't have enough opportunities to get to know other people, whether they want to find a suitable partner or not. If there are few opportunities, the natural result will be different.

This opportunity and result itself is a changeable situation, but it is difficult to have enough courage to face and change this situation, because the cost of change itself is an unpredictable thing.

Unpredictable results will naturally lead to reluctance to try more, and living according to the previous standards is at least guaranteed.

Third, the comfort zone extends from reality to virtual. People in the comfort zone won't figure it out. If the comfort zone is getting bigger and bigger, the chances of getting out will naturally become smaller and smaller.

People's comfort zone began to expand to virtual, leading to reluctance to communicate in reality. So more and more people are single.

Conclusion: Learn more about everyone's living environment, and then change your situation, and life may be better.