♀? Keep calm
In the face of children's abusive language, parents should first stabilize their mentality and avoid overreaction. Only in this way can children be better guided to realize their mistakes.
Deep communication
Have a sincere dialogue with children and understand why they say such things. Is it influenced by peers? Still have dissatisfaction and pressure in your heart? Through communication, we can find the root of the problem more accurately.
Educational guidance
Make clear to children the seriousness of hurtful words and educate them to express their feelings and opinions in civilized language. At the same time, teach children to respect others and cultivate good social habits.
teach by precept and example
As parents, we should set an example and pay attention to our words and deeds. Avoid using vulgar and bad language and set a good example for children.
Cultivate empathy
Teach children to learn to empathize and feel the feelings of others. In this way, when they associate with others, they will choose their words more carefully to avoid hurting others.
Establish/make rules
Develop family rules with children to explicitly prohibit abuse. Once violations are found, appropriate punishment should be given to make children aware of the seriousness of the mistakes.
Professional help
If the child's abuse continues to be serious, consider seeking the help of a psychologist. Through professional counseling and correction, help children get out of trouble and rebuild a healthy psychological state.