First, lead by example, children are born with a blank sheet of paper. What they see and learn, what their parents say and do directly affect their children. A warm family and good moral education affect the healthy growth of children.

Second, education should start at an early age. When my family was ten years old, I didn't think of educating my children, and I always felt powerless. I used to be busy at work, so I thought, children are too young to understand and don't know what to say. Wait till they are older! Work is very important. Later, I realized that this was a wrong idea! Children should be taught from an early age, and even unknown so should speak patiently.

Third, we should communicate, know how to put ourselves in the other's shoes, understand whether the children's ideas are reasonable, and then communicate to solve the problem, instead of looking at the problem from the perspective of adults themselves and blindly accusing them.

The key to educating children is physical and mental health and happy growth.

Basic viewpoint: The source of children's education lies in family, family style and family education, especially the knowledge, virtue and temperament of mothers. As parents, we should strive to improve our knowledge level, actively strengthen moral cultivation, earnestly create a warm and harmonious family atmosphere, form a noble and noble family style and tutor, and let our children grow up healthily and happily!

The source of children's education is parents, more precisely, parents, especially mothers. The famous European educator Froebel said: "The fate of a country is not so much in the hands of those in power as in the hands of the mother." This fully shows the importance of family, family style and family education to children's growth. Parents' education for children is the starting point and source of children's education. Parents are their first teachers and affect their life!

Parents' education for their children, especially the education from their mothers, is first of all the education for their children's love. The child's pure soul first received the mother's love and love education. Through the infiltration of maternal love, the child's young mind is branded with traces of love at the first time, and then expanded into kindness, benevolence and great love, which will benefit the child for life.

Parents' education for their children, especially from their mothers, is followed by the education of their temperament and character. Children's temperament basically comes from their parents' innate inheritance and is stable throughout their lives; The children's personality mainly comes from their parents' acquired education, which has a profound impact on their future school education and social education. The better the temperament of parents, the higher the emotional intelligence, and the higher the emotional intelligence of children, which is more conducive to the future development and success of children!

Parents' education for their children, especially from their mothers, is once again the education for their children's physical and mental health and intellectual development. Children's physical and psychological qualities first come directly from their parents' innate inheritance, and more from the influence of acquired education; Children's intellectual development is more influenced by their parents' inheritance, especially the scientific and correct cultivation after tomorrow, which has a lifelong impact on developing children's wisdom and enlightening their hearts.

Parents educate their children, especially from the mother, but also from the child's behavior habits. Parents' words and deeds play a special role in children. The child's initial body and mind, like a blank sheet of paper, is highly plastic and imitative. The earliest shapers and imitators are parents. As parents, we should be strict with ourselves and try our best to teach our children good behavior habits to help them grow up healthily and become excellent talents.

Parents' education for their children, especially from their mothers, and finally, their self-cultivation and self-cultivation education. Family harmony, pure family style and good family education will inevitably cultivate children's good self-cultivation and noble cultivation; Otherwise, the family is broken, the family style is messy, and the tutor is incomplete or lacking, so it is difficult to cultivate children with good self-cultivation and self-cultivation.

In short, the source of children's education lies in family, family style and family education, especially the mother's knowledge, virtue and temperament. As parents, we should strive to improve our knowledge level, actively strengthen moral cultivation, earnestly create a warm and harmonious family atmosphere, form a noble and noble family style and tutor, and let our children grow up healthily and happily!

The fundamental problem of educating children is a very important one, which must be clarified, but many people remain superficial and cannot be fundamentally solved.

The foundation of education is the foundation of being a man, so we must make clear the foundation of being a man.

Human growth is similar to the germination and flowering of plants. If we follow the normal situation without external interference and man-made destruction, plants will grow according to this process. That person also has something called seed, that is, human heart, which can send out a kind heart, just like peanut kernel, which is called benevolence at the peanut seed. This kind of kindness can be preserved a little bit like a seed, which is intentional and what we think in our hearts. Kindness develops in the direction of goodness, while malice deviates from the growth direction of this seed. This is the foundation of human beings, and it is necessary to live for goodness, and this endless kindness is the fundamental starting point of our education.

In this way, we can understand that the starting point of benevolence, righteousness, propriety and wisdom advocated by ancient sages is to teach people to grow up in the direction of goodness and do things that are beneficial to themselves, their families, their country and society.

And to achieve this fundamental, we must rely on our own practice, because that kind heart is in our hearts and needs our own feelings. This is why the emperor and even Shu Ren are all based on self-cultivation, and self-cultivation is the root of this person.

Educating children is not too complicated, that is, always guide children to understand their inner feelings, understand their hearts, and let children constantly cultivate kindness and kindness. This is what the ancients said: cultivate one's morality first. Only by practicing your own body can you feel the feelings in your mind, that is, your initial heart. So the best way is to practice and match words with deeds.

Educate children, no matter whose children they are, as long as we set an example, we can bring them a correct education.

The root of educating children lies in family education, because parents are children's first teachers, and children's life and study habits are greatly influenced by family education before they are three years old.

I read a report before that a couple especially wanted their children to speak fluent English, so they adopted a foreign baby with white skin and curly hair like a doll.

When the child could speak, the two old people froze. It's strange-why can't this foreign child speak a foreign language?

Why can't you speak a foreign language?

Because the daily conversations and life scenes of the two old people are the learning materials that children are exposed to.

The two old people can't speak foreign languages. Without the influence of foreign language environment, how can a child who is learning to speak a foreign language?

Nowadays, families generally begin to attach importance to education, but many parents think that it is enough to get their children into good schools and find a good teacher.

As a result, after a while, I found that it was not the case at all, so I began to question the professional attitude, teaching ability and education level of teachers.

As we all know, how much a person develops depends on how he spends the next eight hours. By the same token, how high a child can achieve in the future depends on family education outside the classroom.

If school education is really omnipotent, aren't all the children who enter famous schools principals and overbearing presidents?

Just like a processing factory, children are brought in, and parents don't have to pay anything, just waiting to harvest billionaires.

Is it so easy to operate

The essence of educating children is to be attentive, accompany more, understand more, encourage more and praise more. Of course, there is no lack of strictness and persistence.

Have a good education and good judgment.

Strong and brave.

honesty and trustworthiness

like reading

Not afraid of setbacks

Health upward

A lot of things that are easier said than done can only be done and cherished.

The source lies in the parents' own quality.

Children's initial learning begins with imitating their parents.

Bandura, the founder of social learning theory, illustrates this problem through two interesting experiments.

One,

Bandura organized two groups of children to watch a video respectively. The first group watched an adult playing with a doll, and the second group watched an ordinary landscape painting.

Then two groups of children entered a room with toys but not allowed to play, which made the children feel negative.

In a negative mood, let the child enter a room with the doll that appeared in the video just now. Children who watch adults hit dolls will have higher aggressive behavior, and they will imitate this action of adults hitting dolls. The other group of children did less.

This shows that children will directly imitate the behavior of adult role models.

Second,

Bandura recruited three groups of children to watch three kinds of videos. 1 group is praised by others after adults hit dolls, the second group is criticized after adults hit dolls, and the third group is that adults don't hit dolls.

Subsequent operations are the same.

The results show that adult role models are praised for beating dolls, and children will show higher aggression; Adult role models are criticized for hitting dolls, and children are less aggressive. The third group is under attack.

This shows that the behavior of role models will also affect children's behavior.

Therefore, when parents set an example and prove through their own high quality that no pains, no gains, children will naturally develop a diligent character.

And if parents themselves don't recognize the values of no pains, no gains, but believe that cleverness/small means is the way to success, children will naturally deny the value of diligence, but take opportunistic methods everywhere to deal with it.

Therefore, I believe that the source of education for children lies in the quality of parents themselves.

Above.

It is parents who educate their children.

1. Children are the crystallization of parents' love. Have the genes of both parents. Parents are children's mirrors, and children are parents' shadows. What the original ecological family gives will be presented to the children one by one.

2. The pattern and vision of parents determine the future of children. No matter how good the education is, it can't compare with the manners of parents. Parents are the best first teachers for children.

3. No matter how many parent-child classes, intellectual development classes, art training, knowledge training and so on. They are not as good as their parents to set an example, set a correct outlook on life and set a good benchmark for their children.

4. Parents' cultivation is related to children's good fortune. I need to explain this sentence. Some people may think that he has no faith and doesn't believe it, but what I want to say is that the starting point of a child's life will be different if the child has no faith and the parents' practices are in place. You can experience it slowly in life. It's no use talking too much. You have to experience it for yourself.

In my opinion, China's benevolence, righteousness, propriety and wisdom are very important. My grandfather taught us from an early age, don't steal, don't lie, be honest, lend money to people on time, be polite, be grateful, and so on, which still affects me today. Although you often suffer in the real world, your essence will not change. Therefore, I think educating children should first educate children how to be human. As for learning, adults should not blindly ask their children to work overtime to get the first place in the exam, but let nature take its course. I found that there are many students who have passed the undergraduate course, but in fact, parents did not exert pressure. Everyone's specialty is different. As long as you work hard, you can do well in that line, and children have children's ideas. You should give advice to your children.

This direction is too big. Different children have different educational policies. To tell the truth, no educational method will suit everyone and discover the characteristics and highlights of children. Just encourage and guide her a lot, and then you must teach her to be a man. This is fundamental.