1, teach children how to share. Often tell children to share their favorite things with others, so that children can feel the joy of sharing with others and naturally understand how happy they are to receive gifts from others, so as to know how to thank them from the heart.
2. Teach children to help others. While helping others, let the children learn to feel the inner satisfaction when others thank him. Only when the body feels this feeling can children understand the importance of thanking others when they get help.
3. Read some related books for children. This way is much more useful than usual, let the children think for themselves, and I believe that the children themselves can understand this truth.
4. Let children and parents do housework together. After each dinner, let the children and parents wash dishes, brush pots and clean tables together. On Saturday and Sunday, let the children and parents do a general cleaning at home together. This is because some things only children have experienced personally, and the next time they see others doing the same thing, they will understand the hardships and care for others better.
5. Don't distort children's values. Now it is a materialistic society. Don't instill the idea that money is happiness in children. Don't regard money as a child's only goal. Let children feel that the beauty of this world is the most important thing. Let him love others more, feel more love, establish correct values for children, and let children learn to be grateful.
? The reason why children are selfish:
1, the growth of self-awareness In fact, it is normal for children to have such selfish behavior, because with the self-awareness of children from the age of two, he has such a "private consciousness", hoping that the more he has, the better, and he does not want to take out his own. This is all because of the growth of self-awareness. Later, with the growth of age, children began to long for friendship and acceptance by others, and they would have a sharing and tolerance mentality, which was gradually developed.
The influence of parents' behavior is undeniable, and children's personality is sometimes really related to genes. For example, my neighbor's father is a man with a good personality. He is very enthusiastic and always likes to help others. His son knows how to share. Comparatively speaking, my son is very stingy. This is the subtle influence of parents' behavior. Some parents are very stingy, and neighbors always use various excuses to avoid borrowing things, which will undoubtedly encourage children's selfish behavior.
3. Lack of family education In life, we can often see that parents are used to some children being bullied. The food at home is closely linked with the children. Parents don't buy clothes all year round, but the clothes they buy for their children can't be put on. It is precisely because of the concept of "no matter how hard you suffer, you can't suffer your child" that many parents have reluctantly spoiled their children. This "selfless dedication" spirit leads to children's "self-centered" thinking. Anyway, they only want themselves, not others.