Extended question:
However, whenever I pass by some schools and look at the children's heavy schoolbags, I wonder if their classrooms are overloaded now. If not, that's what other schools teach them. Did they lose at the starting line? So how to make children grow up happily into smart teenagers under heavy studies? I understand that smart teenagers are sunny teenagers with beautiful hearts. Here are some of my views.
1. Parents and children communicate patiently. Many of our parents are busy at work at ordinary times, and their parents are under great pressure. Some of them, when they come home from work, will vent this kind of adult pressure on their children when they are tutoring them, for example, they have no patience to communicate with their children and always beat and scold them. These are mostly caused by parents' poor control over their emotions. Over time, children are reluctant to communicate with their parents and have something in their hearts. This situation is very good.
2. Parents should guide their children correctly. For example, children love watching TV, playing mobile phones, being funny and so on. Parents should reflect on whether it is the same in front of their children. Parents are the best role models for children, so we should establish a correct view of time and entertainment time in front of children.
3. School education. In addition to normal teaching, we should also propose courses of physical exercise and outdoor experience, which students can't learn by sitting in the classroom. Through outdoor activities, we can increase the spirit of unity between children and classmates and increase our understanding of children's world, which should be expanded.
4. In spare time, parents should also take their children outdoors, take part in more social practice activities, and educate their children with actions instead of regular verbal abuse. Only by letting children participate in some things themselves can we change our cognition and views on the past from the bottom of our hearts.