1, properly and correctly boot.
Due to the increasing pressure of entering a higher school and interpersonal relationship, the psychology of adolescent students has changed. If there is no correct guidance, children will easily encounter skills and psychological obstacles in cognition, understanding and application, especially under the influence of some abnormal external factors, which will often stimulate their subconscious resistance and stimulate them to take resistance to the outside world and form rebellious psychology.
Step 2 respect children
Parents should see the growth of their children, respect their self-esteem, establish close and equal friendship with their children, and let them participate in family management.
3. Give children confidence
Parents should believe that their children have the ability to handle things independently, support them as much as possible, encourage and comfort them when they encounter difficulties and failures, and praise them as much as possible when they succeed.
4. Learn to empathize.
Parents also came from the rebellious period of youth, but children are not obvious, so in the face of their inexplicable behavior, we might as well put ourselves in their shoes and think about why children are like this. With empathy, you will understand the child and find the crux of the problem.
Precautions:
1, parents should not educate their children with emotions. With emotions, children will become more resistant. Therefore, parents should not educate their children when they are impatient, irritable and not calm. When you calm down, you can communicate with your children.
2. Children have an inevitable development stage of "self-awareness budding and independent desire growing". Parents should clearly see the positive significance brought by this stage to their children's growth, let them relax, and more often they will not be angered, and instead look for a variety of coping strategies.