1. Inconsistent ideas: We live in a rapidly changing era, and many of our parents' ideas may be out of date. Therefore, when parents use past experience to educate us, we may find it hard to accept.
2. Age difference: Parents' age is different from our experience, which may cause us to feel incomprehensible when they educate us.
3. Communication style: Sometimes, our parents' communication style may make us feel uncomfortable. For example, they may put too much pressure on us or criticize us too often, which may make us feel depressed and disgusted.
4. Inconsistent expectations: Parents may have expectations for us, but these expectations are not necessarily what we want. If we feel that these expectations bring us pressure, we may resent our parents' education.
Faced with this situation, we can take the following measures to deal with it:
1. Rational communication: try to express your thoughts and feelings calmly, and at the same time listen to your parents' views and find common ground in order to reach a consensus.
Respect each other: Although we may disagree with our parents, we should respect their ideas as much as possible. This helps to establish a better communication environment.
3. Find the right time: Sometimes, when we are emotional, it may not be suitable for in-depth conversation. Therefore, we can find the right time to communicate with our parents.
4. Mutual understanding: Although our experiences and ideas may be different, we can try to understand each other's thoughts and feelings. This will help to establish a better relationship of mutual understanding and trust.
In family education, we may encounter various challenges and difficulties. However, as long as we keep an open mind and a positive attitude, we can overcome these difficulties and establish a healthier and more intimate family relationship.