Endless reasoning.

Lose your temper for no reason.

Deliberately moved anytime and anywhere

Rousseau said that the three most useless ways of education in the world are: endless reasoning, losing your temper for no reason, and deliberately moving anytime and anywhere.

Put your personality, likes and dislikes, desires, emotions, etc. It is a kind of bondage and bondage to others, which is easy to cause children's rebellious psychology. All you think about is narcissism.

If your education has never bypassed the following six types, then you need to change yourself from now on. Orders and orders, warnings and threats, exhortation and preaching, earnestly, criticism and blame, ridicule and satire.

Education is not concerned with life, but doing life;

1. Let children understand the truth, not understand it;

2. Acceptance and respect are better than a thousand sermons;

Only by practicing for children can education come naturally.

Wise parents know how to beat about the bush!

Short stories:

What do you do when the child stands on the table and wants to jump? Smart dad didn't say anything, but took an egg and put it on the edge of the table. The egg rolled off the table and broke with a bang, and the egg liquid spilled all over the floor. Then dad said, "Look, this is the result of jumping off the table." It not only prevents dangerous behavior, but also makes children understand the seriousness of the consequences.

Conclusion:

1. We have heard countless truths, but we still can't live a good life.

2. Many times, the more parents organize their children, the more they want to try. Smart parents will make their children understand the truth in a way acceptable to them.

3. "Any kind of educational phenomenon, the less the child feels the intention of the educator, the greater his educational effect. -Suhomlinski

1. Read

Reading can mold children's intelligence and quality. One is to give children good intelligence, the other is to give children good psychological quality; Third, give children the ability to repair psychological trauma.

2. Freedom

It is not "laissez-faire and lawlessness", but giving children three rights: the right to choose, the right to try and the right to make mistakes. Those truly free children know better where the boundaries of behavior are. Whether children can be set free is the touchstone for adults to express their love and educate their children with quality.

lead by example

Parents who live in vanity cannot teach their children a practical and mean teacher, nor can they teach their children tolerance. Teaching by example is not only what you look like in front of outsiders, but also what you look like when you get along with children.