First, good moral education. Talent comes first, education comes first. Good moral quality is the foundation for children to become adults, and it is also a passport for children to stand on the society in the future. Morality is also a kind of wisdom, and good moral quality can promote children to learn scientific and cultural knowledge better. A person with low moral quality, no matter how good his academic performance and ability are, may become a dangerous thing in society. If you don't want your child to go to jail in the future and commit crimes with high IQ, you can't just pay attention to your child's study, but start with the most basic moral bottom line education such as patriotism, law-abiding, respect for the elderly and love for the young.
The second is good psychological quality education. Children should be taught from an early age not to be afraid of difficulties, setbacks and failures, and to have good psychological quality. Life can't be smooth sailing. Some people may spend their lives in failure, but because of their excellent hard-hearted quality and perseverance, they may be successful at the end of their lives. If you don't want your child to be depressed or even commit suicide in the face of difficulties and setbacks in the future, you should teach your child to fail from an early age and face the failures again and again in exams and life with a calm mind. If a child can only win but can't lose, even if he can get the first place in every exam, he won't have this psychological experience of failure and can't stand the blow of failure. In the future, he may "draw water with a sieve."
The third is good behavior habit education. Habit is a conscious behavior with strong inertia. As we all know, good habits make a good life. But in daily life, many parents often hold the purpose of "loving children". They don't let their children do any work at home, and everything is replaced by their parents. As a result, when children grow up, they have no basic self-care ability and are highly dependent, becoming "giant babies" and affecting their happiness throughout their lives. Therefore, parents should pay attention to the education of children's good work habits, hygiene habits and study habits, especially the habit of reading and thinking. With these good habits, children can not only become talents, but also learn scientific and cultural knowledge better and have a happy life.
The fourth is the education of ideals and beliefs. Perhaps some parents think that this kind of education is an empty slogan, and it is far less important to grasp the children's current academic performance than to spend the moon in the mirror. If you think so, you are all wet! It is right to grasp children's learning, but let them know why and what is the purpose of learning? This is the motivation for children to continue learning. A child with ideals, pursuits and patterns from an early age may not be good at learning for the time being, but with the passage of time, it will release strong development potential. However, parents should pay attention to the fact that ideals and beliefs are not castles in the air. They should be formulated according to children's foundation and interests, so that children can understand and accept them and be willing to work hard for them.
Personally, I think that for the healthy growth of children, we should pay attention to the following aspects of education:
Talent comes first, education comes first. Good moral quality is the foundation for children to become adults, and it is also a passport for children to stand on the society in the future. Morality is also a kind of wisdom, and good moral quality can promote children to learn scientific and cultural knowledge better. A person with low moral quality, no matter how good his academic performance and ability are, may become a dangerous thing in society. If you don't want your children to go to jail in the future and commit crimes with high IQ, you should start with the most basic moral education, such as patriotism, law-abiding, helping others, respecting the elderly and loving the young.
Life cannot be smooth sailing. Some people may spend their whole lives in failure, but because of their excellent psychological quality and perseverance, they may be successful at the end of their lives. If you don't want your child to be depressed or even commit suicide in the face of difficulties and setbacks in the future, you should teach your child to accept failure from an early age and face failures again and again in exams and life with a calm mind. If a child can only win, but can't lose, even if he can get the first place in every exam, but without this psychological experience of failure, he can't stand the blow of failure, and it may be difficult to stand on the society in the future. Therefore, it is necessary to educate children from an early age not to be afraid of difficulties, setbacks and failures, and to have good psychological quality.
Habit is a conscious behavior with strong inertia. It is well known that good habits make a good life. But in daily life, many parents often do it for the purpose of "loving children". They don't let their children do any work at home, and everything is arranged by their parents instead. As a result, when children grow up, they have no basic self-care ability and are highly dependent, becoming a "giant baby" and affecting their happiness all their lives. Therefore, parents should pay attention to the education of children's good work habits, hygiene habits and study habits, especially the habit of reading and thinking. With these good habits, children can not only become talents, but also learn scientific and cultural knowledge better and have a happy life.
As parents, we should pay attention to and cultivate projects suitable for children's interests. People often say, "Interest is the best teacher". When a person has his own hobbies, then his life is full of fun. Of course, hobbies are healthy and beneficial. He can enjoy it and continue to fight for it. Why not?
Perhaps some parents think that this kind of education is an empty slogan, and it is far less important to grasp the children's current academic performance than to spend the moon in the mirror. If you think so, you are all wet! It is right to grasp children's learning, but let them know why and what is the purpose of learning? This is the motivation for children to continue learning. A child with ideals, pursuits and patterns from an early age may not be good at learning for the time being, but with the passage of time, it will release strong development potential. However, parents should pay attention to the fact that ideals and beliefs are not castles in the air. They should be formulated according to children's foundation and interests, so that children can understand and accept them and be willing to work hard for them.
Children are called "flowers of the motherland and pillars of the future". To shoulder the heavy responsibility of building a bright future, parents should not only pay attention to their children's learning, but also pay attention to the education in the above five aspects, so that their children can have noble quality, healthy body, good behavior habits, extensive hobbies and lofty ideals in life. Only by becoming a real international pillar can we thank our parents for returning to society, serving the motherland and becoming a real national pillar.
Children education includes "behavior education" and "knowledge education". Education is mainly done by parents and teachers. Among them, parents are mainly responsible for "behavior education".
The growth of a child is mainly the input of knowledge and three views. One of the three inputs is behavior education.
So teach specific behaviors first, and then sum up the truth. Children can better establish the correct three views.
Parents' education for their children is actually family education. I also wrote an article about family education and answered "What is the starting point of family education?"
Answer it again today.
What should I pay attention to in family education?
1, family education should pay attention to children's habits. A child with good habits has a far-reaching impact on his future life, study and growth. Pay attention to his habit formation, it is necessary to cultivate it purposefully, in the dribs and drabs of life, in the study of parents and children, in the homework with children, when going out to play ... In short, parents should pay attention to cultivating it purposefully while understanding this.
2. Pay attention to and cultivate projects with appropriate interests. When a person has his own hobbies, then his life is full of fun. Of course, hobbies are healthy and beneficial. He can enjoy it and make continuous progress. Why not?
3. Pay attention to children's physical and mental health. Parents should not only pay attention to their children's scores, how they study and how they rank in classes and grades, but also pay attention to their physical and mental health. A healthy body and a healthy mind are more important than anything else. This epidemic, many people lamented, health is really good! Attention to mental health can not be ignored. I believe many parents will ignore this aspect and think that their children can have any psychological problems, but once something goes wrong, it will be too late to regret it.
You also need to pay attention to children's values.
School education is only a part of children's growth, but family education is indispensable.
When a child landed in this world, his parents and family greeted him first. Since then, his joys and sorrows have been closely related to this family. His growth relates to the growth of a family, so the importance of family education is self-evident.
An educator abroad once said that a good father is worth 100 principals, which shows how important family education and family influence are to children.
But we should also be soberly aware that family education is an important part of children's growth, not the whole thing.
Seeing this problem, I think:
1? The advantages of my child