First, ideas are more important than methods.
Most people never have a stable idea and method of educating children in their minds, and they often lack consistency and long-term views on children's education. What our parents lack most is the philosophy that can support their children's life. Basically, they all write articles about methods and skills, and only get a few broken things. Success begins with parents, that is, parents' ideas. Ideas are ten thousand times more important than methods!
Second, interest is more important than knowledge.
The highest state of learning is that you want to learn, and there is only one way to achieve this state: interest. What is interest? Interest is a natural curiosity, that is, curiosity. Knowledge is not important, but knowledge is important. Dead reading, dead reading, dead reading. Knowledge is not power, it is power to use it, and it will not automatically change fate. Only by making good use of knowledge can we change our destiny. The way to seek knowledge is: interest-hobby-obsession. The task of parents is to help and guide children to this step, and children will have the advantage of standing out from the crowd. Advantage is the general trend of life. Without advantages, they are waiting for mediocrity.
Third, state is more important than ability.
Once you are weak or sick, your eyes, voice, movements and appetite will change, but once you recover, you will feel refreshed and your ideal Yun Fan will hang high again. This is the state. Ability is not important, but how to play well is important!
Many children have lost their innocent aura, and their liveliness, romance and laughter no longer exist. More than one-third of primary and secondary school students are tired of learning, and the piano class is in a daze because of the difficulty in Olympic math class. Is it because they are not smart? No, they are not studying at all! Babbling, persecution, abuse, irony, and quarrels between parents have withered children, who can neither absorb nor play, and are completely morbid. Not in the state, talk about what growth, what future! The child's good state is more important than anything else. Good state, physical and mental health, full of energy, learning everything with half the effort!