Da Zhuang, a 5-year-old son, ran into the house from the outside and said to his mother, "Make me a flowered skirt. Look how beautiful Lingling and Lily's flowered skirts are! " No wonder there are five or six children as big as Da Zhuang in this unit, and only Da Zhuang is a boy. Playing together since childhood, how can girls' dressing and living habits not affect their strength? He is genuinely jealous of them. It stands to reason that the mother should be aware of the child's sexual psychological problems and should carry out patient initiation gender education, but she took a simple reprimand and thanked her father for making up the lessons.

Dad held Da Zhuang in his arms and asked kindly, "Zhuang Zhuang, are you a boy or a girl?" "I am a boy!"

"What about Lingling and Lily?" "Of course it's a girl!"

"That's right. So mom won't make you a skirt or dress you in fancy clothes. " Seeing Da Zhuang, I still don't understand what he means. Dad asked again, "Do you know the difference between men and women?" Da Zhuang thought for a moment and said, "Men are tall and strong, with loud voices and great energy, and they can also do manual labor, just like their father."

"What about the woman?" "Women like to take care of children, do housework and wear beautiful clothes, just like aunts and mothers."

I was a little embarrassed to see my son. My father told Da Zhuang another story: a boy lived with his cousin at his grandmother's house since childhood. He not only dresses like a girl, but also wears long hair and braids and dresses like his sisters. Later, he didn't even know whether he was a man or a woman. As a result, when he grew up, he hated being a man, went to see a doctor and insisted on turning himself into a woman. There was no way to change his psychology, so the doctor had to perform a major operation on him and turn him into a woman. He has suffered a lot himself.