When children play together, it is inevitable that there will be pushing and shoving. If the child has not suffered substantial harm, then parents should not interfere. Some parents are very concerned about their children, especially distressed by them. They are anxious when they see other children pushing their children. So mom and dad will stop other children from doing this and even criticize other children. This kind of education is very incorrect, which will only cause children to be isolated.

Affect the relationship between children. Since parents let their children play together, they should give time to these children. If there is no particularly dangerous phenomenon, then parents should not insist, because this kind of education method is simply not correct. And if mom and dad interfere with other children casually, then what mom and dad do will only make their children resist by other children.

From the perspective of children, children play together in the hope that everyone can play well together, and this kind of pushing and shoving performance may be just a way of communication between them. If the child is happy and doesn't feel offended, then parents don't need to deal with it, because at this time, the child regards the other person as a friend, so even if there is such a move, it is just for fun.

But if mom and dad get involved in this matter, it will be different. Mom and dad will definitely blame other friends, which will embarrass their children and make others feel that this child does not need to be friends. In addition, the intervention of parents will make children feel bound by their parents all the time, which is also a very bad way to guide children.