Can't stand rational debate
Without rules, there would be no Fiona Fang. Standards are a necessary condition for everyone to survive, even children. Parents should teach their children basic "standards", such as greeting the elderly, saying thank you to the rescued people, not taking other people's things, and not making loud noises in public places. This is also what everyone often calls "family education", and it is the first lesson for children to build their lives. If the child is "arrogant" and doesn't understand the requirements, it is unreasonable. We must take good care of our children, and we must never blindly make them "unreasonable" just because they are crying.
Rely on mom and dad
Children must have some independence. It is necessary to make it clear that they can't depend on their parents for everything. Parents can teach their children to do some simple housework at the right age and shape their independent self-control ability. They can't help the child distribute everything, which will hurt him.
act of violence
Some children are likely to have some violent behaviors, like smashing small toys, abusing animals and even fighting. Parents who find this situation must immediately dissuade them to prevent serious adverse effects. Rejecting violence is a common obligation of every parent to children and social development. Children's violent behavior is the main manifestation of insecurity. Usually, children should be manipulated to watch cartoons or books with violent plots, and parents should create a warm and harmonious family environment in their daily lives and gradually eliminate their grievances.
Love to steal things
As the saying goes, "children steal needles and grow up to steal gold." Disobedient children will be desperate for anything they want. It's the child's subconscious. Many children stole it when they were young. This requires parents to convey some social moral concepts and the concept of the rule of law, prevent children from forming good habits, and turn the atmosphere of stealing into a "hobby" that feels happy.
No concept of time
People's view of time is very important. Children don't have much experience and don't understand the timing. Therefore, parents should shoulder the obligation to shape their children's view of time. Nowadays, many adults have procrastination, that is, they have not accurately shaped the concept of time since childhood, which has consumed a lot of precious time and missed many opportunities.