The ancients said: Too much greed leads to too much loss, too much anger leads to too many mistakes.
The more impatient people are, the more aggressive they are, the more likely they are to stumble, the more likely they are to be attacked by anger and impatience, and the more likely they are to suffer, and once they are insatiable and uncontrolled, they will often lose more.
Good words, simple words.
Those who achieve great things have three precepts, which are universal in ancient and modern times.
1. It is urgent
When you encounter something, don't be impatient, don't rush to conclusions, and don't make hasty decisions. As long as you calm down and think about it, the road of life can go further.
There are many things in life that can't be seen at a glance. A moment of spring breeze, or a moment of depression, will not count forever. Only those who are not in a hurry can live long and endure. There are two brothers. Brother is impatient and clever. He always hopes to succeed soon. Over the years, he has chased many "window" industries. Although he succeeded, most of the projects failed. More than ten years have passed and he has accomplished nothing. My brother is calm, low-key and unhurried. He has been focusing on the development of hardware processing. After several years of technical polishing, it has been recognized by customers all over the world. Therefore, his business has been going on. After more than ten years, he seems to be tepid, but in fact he is worth tens of millions.
Life is like a race between a tortoise and a hare. Although the rabbit jumps high and runs fast, it can't run far. The winner of the long-distance race is always the tortoise.
Those who achieve great things should not be anxious. Impatience is a taboo on the road to growth. A person thinks about quick success and instant benefit all day, is eager for success, and despises the little things around him. The end result is often a dead duck. If you want to achieve something, you must start with small things. Only those who can skillfully do small things can do great things perfectly.
As the saying goes, the shorter the temper, the lower the wisdom, the calmer the temper and the deeper the wisdom.
Want to make some achievements, also is not happen overnight. The more you want to go far and climb high, the more you must step on every step and keep your feet on the ground before you can take Wan Li Road.
When our abilities and ambitions don't match, the only thing we can do is to hold our horses, calm down, be calm and unhurried, so as to be far-sighted and make peace.
Stop angry
A person who can control bad emotions is better than a person who can win an ideal city.
There is a classic saying in the management field: If you want to learn management, you must first learn to manage yourself. If you want to manage yourself well, you must first learn to manage your emotions.
There are many talented people in the world, but it is precisely those who are good at managing their emotions that can really achieve something.
Xiao Lei, a classmate, did very well in the college entrance examination and was admitted to a famous university. After graduation, I set up an Internet startup company with a class of students and seized the opportunity of Internet development. The development in previous years was particularly smooth.
However, after several years of cooperation, his partners gradually disagreed with him. According to experts, Ray's biggest problem is that when he is in trouble, he will fly into a rage. Some swearing words blurted out, and even in formal meetings, people didn't like what Lei did, so they gradually started a new stove.
Later, at a shareholders' meeting, Xiao Lei quarreled with shareholders because of the development direction. In the end, the two sides broke up in discord, and all shareholders withdrew their shares to form a new company, leaving only Xiao Lei, and finally the company was declared closed.
I can't control my emotions, and it is often myself who gets hurt in the end.
It is difficult for people who fly into a rage when they are angry to gain the trust of others, let alone cooperate with others in depth. There is a simple reason. No one has the obligation to endure other people's bad temper, so it is fatal to interpersonal relationships to be unable to control their emotions.
One of the signs of a person's maturity is that he has strong emotional management ability, which can control his emotions and thus control his own destiny.
People who are led by emotions lose their minds when they are manic and lose their fighting spirit when they are depressed, which not only hurts others, but also hurts themselves.
Learning to see things through emotions is the only way to grow up. If a person wants to make some achievements, the more he stays calm in times of crisis and when things happen, the more he should cultivate a normal heart, calm his anger and be calm.
Avoid greed
There is a training institution that closed down a few years ago. Many years ago, the goal of this training institution was to build a national first-class psychological education training, and has been working hard in this regard. At the beginning, the quality of the course was good and the reputation was good. Slowly, the goal changed.
There are more and more students, and the chairman wants to make the company bigger and the main board listed. If he wants to make it bigger, he must recruit more students and charge more tuition fees. At the beginning, the vision of this training institution was to be responsible for the growth of students and make them gain something and change. However, since the chairman's desire to make the company bigger and stronger, the company's operation has been more focused on "making phone calls", so various means of "tricking and forcing" students to make phone calls have been used to the extreme. In this way, the contact between students has really doubled, and the tuition income has naturally risen, but it is also by attracting people to call.
Gradually, people stopped buying the courses of this company. Although many reforms have been made, even long-term advertising in well-known TV stations has not helped. The reputation of graduates has doomed the company.
At the beginning of 20 17, the company went bankrupt after tens of millions of debts. Four years later, the chairman of the board of directors is still a "broken-hearted person".
Many great events were ultimately defeated by the word "greed". Desire is human nature, but if you don't know how to control it, you will be swallowed up by it.
At the beginning of the career, everyone's goals are firm, but as they climb up, they will encounter more temptations. At this time, it is particularly important to take the right path and keep the initial heart.
As the saying goes, small greed is faithless, and great greed is immoral. Only by keeping your initial heart and being strict with yourself can you achieve great things and reach the peak.
There are three commandments for people who achieve great things: don't worry, don't be angry and don't be greedy!
Don't worry about people, don't be upset when things happen, be calm, be grateful and be content. This is a life attitude that a successful person should have. Encourage him.