Parents' words and deeds, your words and deeds will have an impact on the growth of children. Whether it is positive or negative, children are constantly absorbing.

How do you treat your elders or get along with others? The layout of your home, the housework you do in the kitchen, the dishes you serve; You clean the room and put things back; The clothes you usually wear, everything you say and do

Children have been learning from you since they can walk and talk. So how children learn today is basically the result of your subtle influence in the first ten years.

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Education is slow and growth is lifelong.

Three generations of gentlemen. Not only this child, but also generations. Our eyes should not only see the growth of children throughout their lives, but also see the next generation, two generations or even more than three generations.

Only in this way can we ensure that after a hundred years, your family will become better and better, or more and more noble.

Parents are learned. When your children become parents in twenty or thirty years, and you become grandparents, the next generation of children will naturally receive a much higher education from an early age. What about after two or three generations?

Of course, for today's children, in the primary school stage, what we have to do is one word-raising. Cultivate habits and cultivate them slowly. The child is only ten years old, and it is still a long time. Cultivate learning enthusiasm and correct attitude, cultivate honest people, and cultivate the quality of kindness and justice. If these are all cultivated, what are you worried about when the child grows up?

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Parents should first read and love learning.

How can you ask your children to learn without self-study? If you don't like learning yourself, how can you ask your children to love learning? Just before the parent-teacher meeting, several parents walked into the classroom without saying hello to the teacher.

If you are rude yourself, how can you ask your child to be a polite person? So don't blame children when they are not learning well, please review yourself first.

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Reading aloud, aloud and repeatedly is the best way to learn Chinese and cultivate a sense of language.

Be sure to let the children read aloud every night. Whether it is Chinese or English, this is the most critical way to learn a language. Don't be shy. If the child doesn't want to, you can also read with the child.

Any child who can read aloud with emotion will certainly not be bad at Chinese and composition.

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Keep company. Good children sometimes have company.

Always consciously, children with excellent academic performance are mostly influenced by good family atmosphere and responsible education of their parents. Unconscious children must be accompanied by their parents if they want to get good grades. Parents must spend more time with them. I really need to leave some time for the children. No matter how busy you are, you should spend more time with your children.

When the children are reading, you are also reading beside them; When the child is doing his homework, you are also reading beside him; The children recite there, and you can also read books. You don't need to ask too much about his homework, just stay with him quietly.

Being busy and tired at work is no reason. You only have one child, the only one.

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Encourage more and criticize less to cultivate children's self-confidence.

You can't always criticize your children. In the future, your child will grow up slowly, and one day, you will not be able to criticize him. Always criticize, children will resist, and one day they will resist. I believe that the child's little progress, don't worry.

Trusting children is the most important thing. Nothing can promote your progress more than gaining the trust of others.