My mother is a cultured person. In daily life, many people will record some things in their lives through some words. My mother is a great person. Let me share with you that my mother is a cultured person. Let's have a look.
My mother is a cultured person. My mother is a typical illiterate, but in my eyes, she is a person with "culture".
It has been 32 years since my mother died. After my mother left, the house in my hometown was still there, but this home is no longer home, and the number of times I went back was obviously reduced. When mom is around, the house is as warm and attractive as a magnet. After mother died, the house lost its attraction and warmth. Even if I go home occasionally and walk into the old house, I feel cold and desolate.
In this old house, I lived with my mother for eighteen years. After that, I took the northbound train to Baoding, another province, and entered the military camp as a soldier. Three years later, my third brother transferred me back to Jinan, which is close to home. On weekends, I can go back to my mother to chat. However, life always runs counter to people's wishes. In the dead of winter, my mother hurried through her life and went to another world. This year, my mother was 66 years old. They all said to eat a piece of meat, and mom left without eating it. My mother's departure left me with nothing to rely on.
The days with my mother add up to less than 22 years, but I have benefited a lot in my life. During the period when the family was at a low ebb, my mother didn't break the jar and fall, and didn't shirk her responsibility. Instead, I use my shoulders to carry this home and support a complete home for my children. Just like a magpie in a bird's nest on a tree in a hospital, it takes good care of and nurtures children to grow up. Thank my mother for raising me, providing me with schooling and being a human being. When my father died young, the burden of the family fell on my mother's shoulders.
Mothers bear the dual responsibility of raising and educating their children. This is not easy for her life, but also the greatness of a woman.
In fact, my mother's childhood was also unfortunate. Last century1September, 922, my mother was born in a small village in Shidian, Changqing. When I was three years old, I lost my mother, my grandmother. Grandpa, in order to support his family, carries the work for the landlords in the village and can't take care of the family. My mother and my second aunt lived together, and my second aunt, who loved my mother, suddenly fell ill and died at the age of eighteen, which was a great blow to my mother. Because my family is poor, my mother didn't go to school for a day and didn't know a word. Mother is the third of the sisters, and this third has become her real name. Jia was officially named when she got married.
My mother stayed in Jinan for some time after she got married. Only then did I realize the taste of being uneducated. Especially after the father left, how difficult it is at home, and the children are unambiguous in going to school, and they try their best to learn culture for their children. Mother's experience is that illiteracy is black eyes; The view is that with culture, a person's heart will light up, and a person's body will have courage and will not be afraid to go anywhere. To this end, my mother said many times in front of us that selling iron in the pot and going out to beg for food should also provide you with school.
When I was a child, I had nothing to do after dinner in winter. In the house, I sit around the charcoal stove. My mother asked me to count from 1 to 100, and then from 100 to 1. Then it increased in turn and similarly until it reached the mark of 10000, but I was born allergic to numbers and confused, and my mother took pains to teach me again and again.
There are too many stories and statements in my mother's stomach, so I will come as soon as I open my mouth. If we do something wrong there, or complain, my mother will definitely educate you with a proverb or story. For example, I dislike that this meal is not delicious. When complaining, my mother will say that clothes keep out the cold and rice fills my hunger. Another example: when beggars come to the door, mothers treat them with gentleness and respect. If you still have time for dinner, pick up dry food and go out to beg. Then ask, drink water. To beg for food, pass the jar to mom, and mom goes back to the house, pours boiling water or pastes it and goes out. The beggar said with a water tank, you are a good man! When I saw my mother treat a beggar with such a respectful attitude, I said to my mother. Beggars often come. Is it necessary to be so respectful?
Mom said that people have difficulties and have no choice but to take this step. Don't laugh at people and look down on them. Then the conversation turned and said, ugly married woman, sit down immediately; Thrush hair and eyes, collect firewood. I'll tell you this story once. Then, mom didn't forget to educate you again. If you are someone else, maybe you are afraid to go out and beg.
Graduated from primary school, middle school in Qingyang. There is a village in the middle, about ten miles away. All the students in the nearby village go home for lunch. I have the habit of taking a nap at noon. My mother will cook early. I will eat when I get home, and then lie in bed and stare for a while. Mother sat in a chair and watched the time to wake me up. Once, I was so sleepy that I didn't want to get up and want to sleep for a while. And my mother was afraid of missing the time, so she gave me a later time. Every time I say something inaccurate, I just say it roughly. I was so anxious that I lost my temper with my mother and asked if I could tell the figures accurately. My mother replied timidly, I don't know. I was surprised and jumped out of bed. Q, you don't even know the numbers? Mom said, I don't know any of them. I asked, how did you say it accurately in the past? Mom said, count it according to the method you taught.
Mother has no education, I know, but I don't know a number. This is the first time I've heard her say it. I was taken aback and couldn't believe my ears. It's true. My mother went to the fair, bought and sold things, and settled accounts quickly. She never hesitated when she opened her mouth and taught me how to settle accounts. How much to change and how much to spend are also clear, and there has never been a mistake. Once I went to the village supply and marketing cooperative to buy cloth, and when I got home, I gave two more cloth tickets, and my mother quickly sent them back. Mom said she didn't know a number, and she was surprised. Only then did I know that my mother had her own way of knowing. Such as color and size. As for clocks and watches, the starting point and the end point are all remembered. There is a square between the numbers, and each square is 5 minutes, which is calculated like this.
In addition to advocating kindness to others, mothers also have a harsh side, that is, they are very harsh in their behavior. This, I have personal experience. When I was about seven or eight years old, on an early summer evening, I was eating pancakes, playing outside the door, and Blue Crown was eating pancakes. She insisted on exchanging food with me. At first, I disagreed. She begged for a long time. I promised, but I don't want yours. Blue crown said unhappily, if you don't take mine, I won't eat yours. In this way, I exchanged half a pancake with each other. After playing for a while, I came home, and my mother, who was cooking in the yard, saw the pancakes in my hand, not my own. She flew into a rage and severely criticized me for eating other people's food.
I cried and ran to find the blue crown. Finally, Lan Guan's mother came to my house to explain to her. Her mother said in one breath that a pancake is nothing, and I am worried that my child will not learn well. Later, I learned that my pancakes are sweet potato noodles and sorghum noodles, and the color is black; Blue crown pancake is corn flour, and its color is yellow. My mother is very worried about me and has developed bad eating habits. Afterwards, my mother still couldn't forget to educate me with the phrase "freeze to death in the wind and starve to death without making any noise". And this proverb has a great influence on my future life.
This is my mother, my mother is such a person, uneducated mother. Do you look like an uneducated person when dealing with people?
Mother is a cultured person. Mother is a cultured person.
"Huier, I'll go to your brother's house and ask for a big red envelope for me. I want to put the money in. Later, when the wedding ceremony begins, I will give my granddaughter a big red envelope. My mother smiled and turned to me and said ... "
"Ok, I'll get it right away ..." I answered her.
This is a well-known large-scale gourmet restaurant. Today is a good day for my mother's great grandson to get married!
Look at my mother today. She is as happy as an old child, and her mouth is always bent up. When everyone came forward to talk, a smile on his face had undoubtedly made the teeth marks lost in his mouth for several years show in front of people.
An unknown old song tune, such as the morning breeze, floated gently from her toothless mouth from time to time ... and the sound slowly hit my eardrum. Seeing her enjoying herself again, I feel very sorry for myself.
The smile hidden in the corner of her eyes overflowed like ripples in the lake, slowly spread on her face and never disappeared.
At this moment, I saw her sitting in a bar with a pen in her hand. There is a gift list for a wedding banquet.
Opposite is dozens of tables, and the guests are seated one after another.
Only my mother's active eyes looked around and looked very excited. The red ultra-thin wool embroidered coat is very eye-catching when worn on her. The newly cut short hair, although a little gray, is not messy and clean and decent. I think she is as excited as herself at the moment.
"Aunt, the car to pick up the bride has arrived at her parents' house ..." At this moment, I saw a middle-aged gentleman in a light gray suit and glasses coming in from the door in a hurry. I saw him standing in front of his mother and saying to her.
He is a good friend of his brother and is responsible for informing his mother.
He hurried out as soon as he finished. At the moment, my mother seems a little anxious and can't help it. I have been feeling the change of my mother's mentality sitting next to me.
"Boom ... Boom ..." I don't know when there was the sound of fireworks outside the door, which startled my mother. "They came back ..." My mother said in surprise.
She immediately sat firmly in the bar according to her brother's arrangement and started her work.
Her task is to write a gift list. My brother's friend who just left is also here to help my mother.
After a while, I only saw that the hotel door was blocked and the cameraman came in slowly with a camera.
Here comes the bride. "I don't know who gave a cry. My mother immediately stood up straight in the bar, and she was eagerly waiting for the arrival of the bride.
I saw the bride wearing a white wedding dress and a pale pink corolla on her head, coming in like a fairy.
Look at the groom around the bride, wearing a pink suit, a pink shirt and a pink tie. I suspect that he was a beautiful boy that day and landed on the earth.
Look at the mother's eyes chasing them, and never stop.
People say that every generation is very close, especially close.
I can feel my mother's love and pity for his eldest grandson. Of course, she brought it up by herself, and she has deep feelings!
The wedding has already begun ... only the beautiful songs are heard, and the voices of men and women singing in pairs are echoing ... shocking.
People shouted excitedly. I turned around and saw the tears in my mother's eyes. I quickly avoided looking.
With the opening remarks of both parents, the wedding lasted until it was the host's turn to shout and invite the groom's grandmother to say a few words on the stage. My mother was excited and didn't hear clearly. I immediately called her, pulled her skirt and said, "I told you to speak on stage." Go ahead and say a few words of blessing to your grandchildren! "
Mother's spirit did it one brace up and walked briskly onto the stage.
Reaching for the microphone handed over by the host, he said in a loud and slightly trembling voice, "Today is my granddaughter's big day. Thank you for coming. Thank you for taking time out of your busy schedule to attend the wedding of my grandson and granddaughter's wife. Thank you in advance for your hard work!
Besides, I have to say something, groom, you are an adult now, and you are a man now. Grandma wants you to be a man in this life and have a job to do at work. No matter what happens in life, don't haggle with your daughter-in-law, it will hurt your feelings and make you feel worthless. "
"Be sure to remember grandma's words, home and everything! May you two get along for a hundred years! "
"Huier, you are quick to bring your mother's extra-large red envelope to the stage. I want to give my granddaughter a gift so that she will always remember my grandmother's kindness! "
I was standing in the bar, looking at my brother's good friend Peng Ge, and I didn't react for a moment. Fortunately, Brother Peng repeated his mother's words. I picked up the red envelope prepared at hand and rushed to the stage.
Watching my mother put a huge red envelope into her granddaughter's hand. Then she grabbed her grandson's hand and put it in her granddaughter's hand. Later, she said loudly to her granddaughter into the microphone, "Granddaughter, can you tell grandma that I will never let go of my grandson's hand again in my life?" Can you do it? "
Unexpectedly, the bride immediately said loudly into the microphone: "The relatives and friends, uncles and aunts under the stage have witnessed it, and I will never let go of his hand." Then she held their clenched hands high.
The audience stood still for a moment, suddenly burst into warm applause, which lasted for a long time.
I can guess that the applause behind this must be for my mother.
I stood backstage, feeling a little confused ... my brain stopped working.
What is mom doing? What rhythm is this?
My brain is running at a high speed, straightening out my thoughts and praising my mother for her high IQ.
It suddenly occurred to me that my mother graduated from high school and used to be the monitor accountant.
Mom is a cultural person!