In fact, now you ask those precious mothers who have given birth to daughters, what is their happiest thing? Most of them can dress children, and what they like and can't wear is realized on children.
Moreover, girls, in particular, love beauty themselves, which can satisfy the pride that mothers dress their children beautifully and are praised by others, but sons can't, because their hair is too short to comb their hair and wear small skirts.
Many beautiful clothes can't be worn by sons, so many parents can't wait to buy all the princess dresses in the world for their children when they have daughters.
But in fact, this kind of thinking and behavior is wrong, because it is best not to wear a skirt for your daughter!
Ma Bao, born in 1990s, only wears skirts for her daughter, and as a result, she can't afford them more and more.
Nannan, the post-90s baby mom, happened to be a daughter, because she had a baby at an early age. From the moment her daughter was born, she frantically bought clothes for her daughter and so on.
Finally, when the child grows up, she buys a little skirt for her daughter every month. Slowly, children are envied by all kinds of children when they go to kindergarten, and this psychology begins to take root.
It was not until junior high school that my daughter fell in love with Lolita, so she began to beg her mother to buy Lolita series skirts for herself. You know, the cheapest one in this series costs tens of thousands.
Nannan was a little embarrassed at first, but later threatened to go on a hunger strike if she didn't buy her daughter. She also said that other students only had their own and would be looked down upon by others.
Nannan looked at her daughter so sad that she couldn't buy it for her children with a credit card, but one of them was dissatisfied, and later it became more and more exaggerated, which completely hurt Nannan's heart.
On this day, my daughter asked for it again. Nannan cut all the skirts for her daughter together, and her daughter rushed out of the country crazily and never came back.
"Don't dress your daughter", a senior teacher called on parents to understand these three potential dangers.
In fact, a senior teacher called on parents not to wear skirts for their daughters a long time ago, because from a teacher's point of view, there are really many problems.
And in fact, dressing your daughter, no matter from which angle, has many potential dangers, especially these three points.
Number one: Girls in skirts will be naked.
Girls themselves must have a strong sense of self-protection, because children's sense of self-protection is too weak now, especially girls. In China society, the people who need protection are the old, the young and the women.
That means that women really have the highest injury coefficient, so we need to let children know more about self-protection, because realistically speaking, parents really won't accompany you to your old age.
Therefore, if you want your daughter to protect herself, wearing a skirt is a very dangerous behavior, because a skirt is a phenomenon that will be exposed whether you wear shorts or not. Moreover, when girls get used to it, they will start to care about their exposure and get used to wearing skirts themselves, which will lead to a decrease in children's awareness of self-protection.
Remember: "Hell is empty. The devil is on earth. " Parents should have this sense of crisis, otherwise they really can't protect their children.
The second point: it is not convenient to be active in school.
In addition, children are usually dressed up at school, because only at school can children's clothes be found out when they are worn out, and there is no need to dress up well at home at ordinary times.
So from kindergarten, some mothers began to dress up their daughters beautifully. In fact, teachers really hate such children because they are prone to accidents.
Skirts are generally princess skirts, and princesses themselves are fluffy, and they are all of that kind of yarn. Some skirts also have some small pendants, which will scratch when children play.
Whether it is a child in clothes or a scratched child, it is a bad phenomenon. Whether it is a kindergarten or a primary school, as long as you go to school, you need a lot of activities.
Then it is easy for you to take off your skirt because of running and jumping, or it is not convenient to move when playing active games, which will make it difficult for the teacher to do it, and you can't be inactive because of her.
You can't leave her hanging, so the teacher really hates students wearing skirts.
The third point: wearing a skirt is easy to make children proud.
Every girl has a princess dream in her heart, which will bring confidence to her children. If this sense of self-confidence is not grasped correctly, it will lead to children's pride.
In particular, parents often buy this kind of skirt for their children and instill your proudest thoughts in them, so you are more likely to have this kind of pride.
If this kind of psychology is envied by others at school, it will soon develop into a comparison psychology. If you don't return it to buy a skirt, the child will want a skirt just like you, by hook or by crook. Once this comparison mentality is up, it is really difficult to go on.
The most beautiful appearance of a daughter is not wearing a skirt, but reading poetry.
First of all, we have never suggested wearing some expensive or beautiful clothes for children since childhood, because it will not play a good role in children's values and consumption views.
You will only give your child a serious sense of comparison. The lower the profile, the better. You will find that really powerful people don't wear big logo clothes.
Only those local tyrants, or people who suddenly become rich, will be addicted to luxury big-name clothes. This is the gap. If you indulge in dressing up your children, they will become local tyrants.
Secondly, you should know that it is not the appearance that really fascinates people. You can make yourself look good through external technology, or you can change it by dressing up.
But only by reading poetry books can your talent and knowledge not be taken away and imitated by others. This kind of beauty is the most attractive and charming.
It seems that I have been watching Hello Life recently. Sa Beining, Nigmati and Kang Hui in it are fascinating as soon as they appear. This is the power of knowledge and talent.
Finally, if you want your daughter to be a "heartthrob", educate your child well and make her a talented woman, which will naturally fascinate people.