"No one can succeed casually without experiencing wind and rain ..." This is the lyrics of a popular song "True Hero" that middle school students are familiar with. I wonder what the meaning of this lyric has brought to your life. However, success is never easy to get, it often comes from tribulation and pain. Life is like this, so is learning.

So, what is suffering education? Simply put, it is a process of appreciating suffering. Maslow, a famous psychologist, once said that setbacks are not necessarily bad things, but the key lies in the attitude towards setbacks. For teenagers, frustration can not only make them have negative emotions, but also hone their will and make them work harder. Although the tolerance for setbacks is related to the innate quality of individuals, it is more created by the acquired environment and is a synthesis of one's emotions, personality and will. After a trial, you will get a chance to be born again. Real life needs suffering, and at the same time, suffering also makes the fate of the strong gain value and sublimation with its ruthlessness. In order to temper students' will, Japanese educational circles hold "field schools", "island schools" and "forest schools" regularly every year to offer students a new course-"Suffering". Let students experience the hardships of getting along with nature without the help of adults, let them experience hardships and setbacks from an early age, and cultivate their hard-working spirit and perseverance to overcome difficulties in order to survive and develop in real life. A middle school student who is considered unmanly was allowed to learn Wushu Sanda by his family during the school summer vacation. One day a month later, the father went to see his son's training: as soon as the coach made a move, his son fell to the ground. Throughout the afternoon, watching his son stand up tenaciously again and again, the father felt deeply distressed and took his son by the hand and said to the coach, "We won't learn." The coach did not respond positively to his father's request, but asked the child, "What is a man's courage and perseverance?" He replied, "Just stand up again, not fall." The coach asked again, "It's up to you to learn or not." The son glanced at his father and went to the training ground without saying a word.

Middle school students should face setbacks directly, seize the opportunity to experience setbacks, experience colorful life and cultivate tough character. Consciously carrying out self-suffering education is an effective way to establish learning confidence and enhance willpower. Most middle school students nowadays are only children. Superior living conditions, the care of parents and even the doting of grandparents make them "the darlings of heaven". The information age has brought rich and colorful knowledge and information. Although it broadens our horizons, it does not give us perseverance to overcome setbacks and difficulties. Indeed, modern middle school students have never felt the moment of life and death in the war; I have never tasted hunger and cold; I don't know how to survive in a bad living environment. Therefore, it is necessary to consciously carry out some education on self-suffering. Of course, this kind of conscious self-suffering education does not necessarily mean that middle school students have to experience the pain experienced by previous generations, nor does it mean that picking up cinders as coolies is a kind of tempering. In fact, modern middle school students also have their own hardships, that is, they should learn to hone themselves in the hardships of learning and growth, learn how to bear the heavy burden of study, learn to take care of themselves, learn to live in harmony with others, learn to socialize and improve their intelligence in an all-round way. Their task is to eliminate failures and unfavorable factors in struggle and patience, and through the arduous process of constantly strengthening self-conscious self-suffering education, they deeply understand how tenacious willpower can help you get enlightenment to overcome life difficulties.