When Juanzi and Abin were in love, her mother-in-law hated her very much. She couldn't say why, but she just didn't like it. Because of her mother-in-law, Juanzi and Abin lived together for many years and never got married. Later, when she became pregnant, her mother-in-law reluctantly agreed to their marriage, but refused to hold a wedding reception. Later, my mother-in-law said that she had prepared a house for Abin, so she stopped giving the bride price. Juanzi loved Abin deeply and accepted everything.
After getting married, my mother-in-law has been finding fault with Juanzi. She always said that Abin had never taken a penny home since Juanzi came, accusing Juanzi of abusing the elderly and Juanzi of losing his family. In fact, Juanzi is also innocent. She and Abin are both employees of ordinary companies, and their salary is not high. Besides, buying things for my mother-in-law at ordinary times is not the money for a family's life.
After the child was born, her mother-in-law moved to Juanzi's house in the name of taking care of the child, and Juanzi felt that her position had plummeted. My mother-in-law will take care of the housework except when Juanzi goes to work. Every day when Juanzi comes back from work, he drags his tired body to cook, wash clothes and mop the floor. Of course, as long as Juanzi is at home, neither mother-in-law nor children will care. My mother-in-law came here not so much to help as to be a guest.
This is Juanzi's most intuitive idea. She complained to Abin, who comforted her: "What can I do? I can't let my mother leave, can I? You have to endure it first, and when the child goes to school, it will be fine if the mother leaves. " Juanzi had to forget about it.
Later, Juanzi found out that her mother-in-law planned to register the couple's house in her own name. Juanzi asked her mother-in-law, who sneered, "Who knows how long you two can be together? What if you two get divorced in the future? " Juanzi was frightened by her mother-in-law's words. What fallacy is this? Abin was also annoyed at her mother-in-law's words: "Mom, how can you talk?" Can't you expect us to do something? "
Mother-in-law continued: "Yes. If you get divorced, I don't want her to get any benefits from you. " It was not until Abin was completely angry and quarreled with her mother-in-law, that her mother-in-law's little abacus came here. Mother-in-law is also involved in educating children everywhere.
One day, Juanzi found her mother-in-law teaching her children "Your mother is an outsider". She asked her mother-in-law not to teach like this, which actually attracted her mother-in-law's scolding; The child caught a cold and went to the hospital. Mother-in-law insisted on hanging the child, because she thought the child would get better soon, regardless of her own life and Juanzi's obstruction. Juanzi's family is in the countryside, and her mother-in-law said that she would not let her children go to see her grandparents because she was afraid of allergies. Turn on the air conditioner at home in summer, and my mother-in-law said that she was afraid that her children would freeze and would not wear short-sleeved shorts. As a result, the children are covered with prickly heat ... Juanzi can tolerate everything except the children's affairs. Abin also thinks twice. In the end, the two were cruel and sent to school when the child was just two years old, so that her mother-in-law could go home.
How can the family be harmonious if the mother-in-law treats her daughter-in-law as an outsider? Every mother-in-law comes from a daughter-in-law, who is also a family member. If the mother-in-law always treats her daughter-in-law as an outsider and even plans her son's divorce in her mind, then even the best daughter-in-law will not always be patient. Children are the responsibility of parents, and mother-in-law can help take care of them, but she must quit education. What do you think of this? Finally, Bian Xiao wants to ask everyone, what would you do if your mother-in-law treated you as an outsider and interfered with your discipline?