In the process of interacting with successful parents, you will feel that their appreciation of their children sometimes moves you. For example, excellent children have their own nicknames at home. When parents call, you will feel that nicknames belong to their parents through their voice and intonation. People will be eclipsed when they call. They never scold or complain when talking about their children. Even if their children are unattractive and sometimes do poorly in exams, they never complain and help them analyze problems calmly. Appreciation is not unrealistic praise and encouragement, but a kind of silent support from the heart, a kind of tacit power. In the contact with successful parents, you can feel that parents have an inexhaustible motivation to appreciate their children from beginning to end.

Second, it is principled, and it is not easy for people to change their views because of things.

Parents clearly know what their children should and should not do, and make rules. Never change easily. For example, when it's time to do your homework, you must do it. When it's time to study, you must study. It won't change because today is a weekend or because today is a special situation. Respect parents, don't lie, be honest, and offenders will never be soft. This is the bottom line of being a man.

Third, be good at running your own family.

A good family atmosphere is the foundation of children's growth. Look at the family of successful parents, and the family atmosphere is harmonious and warm. There are few disputes between parents, and children feel warm and dependent in such a family. Mothers usually play an important role in the family. They keep the house clean and tidy. It doesn't matter how expensive clothes you wear or how expensive things you use. The key is to dress children and adults neatly.

Fourth, be reasonable, behave steadily, and be simple and low-key.

Parents are very reasonable and considerate. Views on problems are often very eclectic, not extreme and stubborn, with steady manners and elegant speech, which will not give people the feeling of arrogance, and rarely boast about their family and income in front of others.

5. Care but don't spoil your children.

They are very concerned about their children, but they can flatly refuse their unreasonable demands, never regret it, and will not tolerate their mistakes.

Sixth, parents cooperate tacitly.

On the issue of educating children, they echo each other and cooperate tacitly. A good COP must be a bad COP. Parents should not undermine each other and blame each other. This is a big no-no. I have seen it with my own eyes. A child disobeyed his mother and had an argument with her. Father severely reprimanded him for this behavior. The child cocked his head and refused to accept it. His father used to kick him. The child cried, but the father did not compromise. Seriously point out his misconduct. Mother told her the truth at once, and the two of them cooperated tacitly. Soon the child will no longer be stubborn.

Seven, work hard and be practical.

Parents' attitudes towards life and work will exert a subtle influence on their children. Look at the successful parents. They not only educate their children to succeed, but also work diligently and conscientiously. I also did a good job in the unit. It can be said that work and life are correct.

Eight, pay regular attention to children's learning.

Every day, I will spend a certain amount of time paying attention to my children, which can be fixed regularly. When my children finish their homework, they should check it again. I have time to study with my children, even if I don't study, I will stay with them. They all have their own desks at home. There is a period of homework reading time every day, and parents will lower their voices or turn off the TV so as not to affect their children's study.

9. I am not proficient in the Internet. I have never entertained myself on the Internet except looking up information on the Internet.

It may be hard to believe that most successful parents are not proficient in the Internet and have no good feelings for it. May be busy with housework at ordinary times, no time to go to Internet cafes. They hardly spend time and play games on the Internet except consulting relevant materials and completing necessary materials at work. In contrast, some parents go online for recreation whenever they have time, which is in sharp contrast. Children love to play games, and many of them are influenced by their parents.

Ten, pay attention to children's healthy diet and cook well.

They are very concerned about the health of their children's diet. They make a reasonable and healthy diet for their children. Those things have additives, and those things are not good for children. Obviously, they cook in person most of the time and seldom buy ready-made ones. A carefully cooked dish.