If parents and children are together, beating, scolding and punishment are the mainstream, and academic performance is everything. As long as it is linked to the senior high school entrance examination and "rebellion" is linked to rest and entertainment, all children's words and deeds are correct. The focus of education is the long flow of water. There are no signs that can show obvious changes in a short time. Education is the precipitation and accumulation of time. As parents, we can't rush for success. Middle-class children are old enough to play. When you deprive her of all the time to play.
Parents want their children to be dragons and their women to be phoenixes. So the way parents raise their children is a fundamental problem. Morning. What's that morning? What children repay you is not abundance, but pain. For children, parents' expectations are like an invisible big stone, which keeps them in a state of intense study, and the often accelerated pace of study makes them run to the front of the car like a car and dare not relax for a moment.
We can't judge children by their mistakes. We should drive patiently, spend more time on education, water them with love, and let them find the one that suits them best. Nowadays, children are too tired to go to school and young people are under great pressure. Parents should slow down, relax, reduce expectations and needs, and give their children a happy childhood, happy youth and relaxed adolescence. Life is not a sprint, nor a middle-distance race. This is a marathon. No one has ever run a marathon because they will never lose at the starting line. So, kid, you need to take your time.