What about boys' rebellious period? First, don't shout, be a good listener. In the face of rebellious children, as a parent, you should try your best to play the role of listener and observer, and don't yell at the children. The more you shout, the more intense your child's emotions will be and the more they will oppose you. It has no effect on the rebellious behavior of persuasion, but will only push the child to the opposite side of you, which is not conducive to the growth of the child.
Second, give children a separate space to calm down. For every parent, it is necessary to give their children a space to be alone in life, so that their emotions can be properly cooled, so as to control their emotions and prevent themselves from falling into unbearable difficulties because of emotional changes. When the rebellious children are calm enough, they can re-taste many words of their parents and understand their kindness. As long as they can calm their emotions, many things will be solved.
Third, after analyzing the pros and cons, let the children make their own decisions. For most parents, if they want to communicate smoothly with adolescent children and reduce the occurrence of various critical situations, whether they are two or three years old or sixteen or seventeen years old, they are worthy of being treated as adults. As long as the pros and cons are properly analyzed, I believe they will be able to make careful choices, avoid greater disasters, and let them make their own choices. They will certainly pay for such a decision.
Try to be friends with your children. As parents, although the growth of children is the unshirkable responsibility of parents and guardians, if you want to give children better guidance, you must strive to become friends with them. Only in this way, can you reduce their resistance and become a state of speaking, so as to avoid their psychological damage and do things that surprise their parents during the rebellious period.
What are the manifestations of boys' rebellious period? First, shut yourself down. I don't want to communicate with others. I often stay alone, don't go out, don't want to communicate with my parents, and feel that my parents are thousands of miles away.
Second, I often lose my temper. Don't let parents move their own things and objects, you should hold back your child's temper when you move.
Third, disobedience, strong rebellious mood. Especially if you resist the words of your parents and teachers, it will make him impatient to dictate the same thing several times, and one criticism can cause anger. Usually don't act according to other people's opinions.