The child is crying, understand the reason!
It is also common for a two-year-old baby to cry in life, but there are many reasons. One may be related to the disease, and the other may be related to the baby's temper. At this time parents must understand the specific reasons. If the child seldom cries, the sudden crying may be due to illness or physical discomfort. At this time, we should pay attention to observe whether the child has other discomfort symptoms besides crying. For example, children's common symptoms such as fever, sore throat, stomach pain, and hand and foot pain.
If you are sure that the child is not crying because of illness, it is probably in a mood. If it is determined that it is caused by the disease, see if you need to see a doctor. If you are not sure if your child is sick, you can go to the clinic to ask a doctor for help. In short, we should actively look for reasons.
Baby loves to lose his temper, which is really a headache for parents, but it doesn't mean that it can't be solved.
0 1 Why is the baby angry?
The influence of family environment
Parents are the first teachers of the children. If parents at home are prone to make a hullabaloo about when they talk, and their temper is out of control, babies will imitate their parents when they grow up in such an environment, and they will be nervous and prone to crying.
The limitation of language ability
Many two-year-olds can only speak some phrases and can't express themselves accurately. When your understanding is wrong, the baby will cry because it is not understood. When you understand correctly, he will stop crying and laugh happily.
What should the baby do if he loses his temper?
Parents lead by example.
Parents are children's first teachers, so parents should pay special attention to their words and deeds, family members live in harmony and pay attention to their expressions. Even when a 2-year-old baby is crying, parents should learn to control their emotions and solve problems rationally. If you really can't help saying something serious to your child, or even hitting your child, you must apologize to your child in time, hug your child and say to him: I'm sorry, mom (dad) was angry with you just now. It is much more effective to set an example than to give him a bunch of lectures in a dry way.
Children crying are also expressing their emotions. For children who are used to controlling their parents with "tears", mothers should learn to observe their emotions at all times and try to feel their emotions. When children cry, tell them, "Mom knows you are unhappy."
Tell children how to vent their bad emotions.
One-on-one discipline, make it cry, and let the children calm down before education.
Most children still want to buy cars after seeing them in the street, even though they already have many cars at home. If parents don't agree, they will play tricks. At this time, some parents with a big temper will get angry with their children and even hit them directly. In fact, the most important thing is to calm down and calm your emotions.
At this time, gently convince the children and tell them the disadvantages of these things. If the child still doesn't listen, one of the parents will take the child home directly for one-on-one discipline. What parents have to do is to be spectators and let them play tricks. After a while, wipe the child's face with a hot towel and ask if the child is tired of crying. If not, let the child continue. Parents can't leave during this process. When the child is tired of crying, you can reason with him. At this time, the child will know that crying is no good and naturally will not do it.
Moreover, two-year-old children are still very young, so they can play a little trick. Parents can tell them that "there is something better ahead" and "Dad will buy you delicious food" and so on, and soon they will forget.
Parents should stand firm.
My position is that lollipops should never be eaten when children are young. At first, he insisted on lollipops as soon as he went to the supermarket. I told him that lollipops have bad teeth and we can buy other delicious cookies. But he wouldn't listen. Instead, he began to cry. At this time, I chose a biscuit that he usually likes to eat and told him that even if he cried, he could not buy a lollipop, but he could buy a better one. Then I checked out, and he stopped crying and followed me. After watching it again, I don't want it.
The wrong way is to say yes when you see a child crying, and buy buy will buy it. There is no position at all. Doing so will only indulge children and let them develop the bad habit of crying.
Give him the option.
The child is about 2 years old and begins to have self-awareness. When you choose something that doesn't suit him, he starts to cry. At this time, the first thing we have to do is to ask the reason why the child is crying (do you want to wear this dress? If he says yes, and we have other clothes for him to wear, we can let him choose one of them and choose what he likes, and he will be happy to do it. If he wets all his pants, it's the only option. We need to talk to him calmly to divert our attention. For example, tell him that his favorite child will come to see him later. Do you want to go? After he definitely answered, he immediately said, then let's put on our pants and play. His attention won't be on his pants. Of course, a 2-year-old is smart and lively. He is just a smart card. When we fight them, we should use our brains. If one move fails, you should immediately change to the next one, so that you can enjoy every stage of his growth.
When a child cries, we can solve it in the above way. Where are your children? What do you do when children cry?
Ma Yuanyuan's parenting message:
The rebellious period of a child at the age of 2 is not terrible. The terrible thing is that we gave the children a violent response. Children have a strong imitation ability and will fight violence with violence. Therefore, to cultivate cute little angels, at this stage, parents need to calm down and choose the right way to educate their children. Secondly, parents must spend a lot of time with their children at this stage, because with company, children can cry and play tricks with confidence; Because of the company of parents, children can establish a sense of security. As long as you are patient enough and have the right methods, you will soon be able to spend this period with your children!