Avoid severe punishment
Avoid threatening children with severe punishment, which may make them more cunning and lie to escape punishment. When a child is found to be lying, private communication is a better choice, giving the child a chance to explain and reflect.
Reflect on one's behavior
Reflect on whether you have lied in front of your children. It is very important to understand why children lie, which is often because they are afraid of being punished. Care about children's needs, guide them reasonably and encourage positive behavior. When children dare to admit their mistakes, praise them in a special way.
Calm down and know the truth.
In the face of children's mistakes, whether unintentional or intentional, first calmly understand the truth of the matter. Give your child a chance to explain and understand the reasons and motives behind it. In this way, you can guide and educate them more effectively.
Avoid shielding and spoiling.
Avoid shielding and conniving, and reward and punishment are clear. When educating their children, parents should give priority to encouragement, supplemented by punishment. Care and encouragement make children more brave in taking responsibility. Understand the motivation of children to lie and avoid excessive accusations and misunderstandings. Good parent-child relationship is the cornerstone of education.