Nowadays, many children are often lively and cheerful. Therefore, in the eyes of many people, children are innocent and their nature is good for everyone. However, many parents often ignore a problem, that is, learn to grasp the scale while flying nature, and don't let children violate some principled things. Therefore, we must grasp a degree of certainty.

Before we re-understand the degree, we must first understand that it is natural for children to know self-control at the same time. Because self-control is a child's unique skin. This is also necessary to master. Many times, we must grasp the child's self-control, and we must not be divorced from our own nature and let ourselves develop independently. Don't move too much and get out of control. Therefore, many parents often mistakenly think that the more dead, the better.

At the same time, self-control can also improve children's attention. To tell the truth, a child who can be strong is often strong inside, knowing when and what to do, but not knowing that he is very clear in his heart. Anyway, such children have their own independent judgment and imagination. Therefore, self-control is also a measure of grasp. So how to grasp this scale?

First of all, on the premise of rejection.

Of course, when I say no, I don't mean all the children's requirements. Everyone should refuse. Because for children, some requirements can still be met. What you call "rejection" is a purposeful behavior of children to obtain their goals in the form of demands. It is necessary to reject such behavior.

Establish corresponding principles.

Many times, it is necessary to establish corresponding principles and systems under the premise of safety. Don't let children release their nature too much, let them do something within their own scope. Don't do everything badly, parents should make reasonable adjustments at any time. Establish corresponding principles and systems.

While releasing nature, don't forget to communicate and educate. In fact, when children are playing, many of our parents can actually play with their children seriously and communicate with them as effectively as possible in the process of playing. This will not let the children get carried away.

To sum it up.

In short, in any case, in the process of children's education, we should not only respect children, but also give them appropriate control. Let the child's nature go beyond his control, respect the child as much as possible under the premise of ensuring safety, and let the child get real exercise. In this environment, growth will get better and better.