Family is a courtyard, children are seedlings, and family style is a silent drizzle. Good family style is the accumulation and inheritance of good quality in the family, and it is the precious spiritual wealth left by the family to each member.

First, let children understand more.

This is a temporary solution, not a permanent cure. Children understand reason and act according to it. Of course you can save a lot of heart. It's better to eat soup than to cook. Children plant many seeds of morality, filial piety, kindness and diligence in their hearts, and he will naturally blossom and bear fruit. It is easy to turn love into lotus, and it is the only way out to make progress despite difficulties. For the sake of children, we work together to put out the fire of troubles in our hearts, inject cool and gentle spring water, and give children peaceful and peaceful counseling.

Second, create a harmonious and civilized family environment.

Parents should have good living habits, read more books and listen to world famous songs, and set an example to indirectly improve their children's quality. Usually, we should pay attention to the emotional cultivation of parents and children, and educate children to improve their affinity and sense of responsibility for the family. Family economic expenditure should be determined democratically and arranged reasonably, and attention should be paid to the principle of hard work to prevent family disputes. Parents are the invisible forces that shape children.

Third, it is the responsibility of parents to control their children before they are underage.

"It is a mistake to raise a godfather instead of a godfather" is widely circulated. The self-control of minors is still immature, and parents should take responsibility. However, this kind of control should be affectionate, humanized, scientific and rational, and children should not be repaired as private property at will. You can't use simple and rude orders, completely ignore your child's thoughts and personality, and respect your child. On the other hand, if minor children regard their parents as their backers and discipline them reasonably, they will feel safe and supportive. If they have problems, they can ask their parents for help. Parents usually listen to their children's studies, expressions, hobbies, etc. ) too much seems to give them more freedom, but children will feel that their parents "don't care" about themselves and feel alienated.