The value and meaning of life are given by oneself. What others impose on you is not your life, but the life of others. So if you want to know why life is, you just need to ask your own heart, where is your heart going? This is the direction of your life. Don't expect yourself by other people's standards, otherwise you will always be a dancer on the stage, and you will spend your life performing others. This is the greatest sorrow in life!
What suits you is the best, and what makes you feel happy is the direction that leads you to happiness.
There are three realms in life,
Seeing mountains is mountains, and seeing water is water;
Seeing mountains is not mountains, and seeing water is not water;
See the mountain or see the mountain. See water or see water.
In other words, a person's life is pure at the beginning, and everything is fresh when he meets the world for the first time. When people told him it was a mountain, he knew it. Tell him it's water, and he'll know it.
As you get older and experience more and more things, you will find problems in this world. There are more and more problems in this world, which are becoming more and more complicated. Often black and white are reversed, right and wrong are confused, and it is unreasonable to travel all over the world. It is difficult to move if it is unreasonable. Good people are not rewarded, and evil people live for a thousand years. At this stage, people are angry, unfair, worried, suspicious, alert and complicated. People don't want to believe anything easily. At this time, people are also sighing at the mountains, sighing at the water, satirizing the present and criticizing the mulberry. Mountains are no longer pure mountains, and water is no longer pure water. Everything is the carrier of people's subjective will. The so-called "good wind, with its strength, send me to Qingyun." If a person stays at this stage of life, it will be a bitter life. People will look high at the mountain, keep climbing, strive for strength and competitiveness, keep up with others, rack their brains on how to be a man and how to live, and do everything they can to live an endless and satisfying day. Because the world is a circle, there are people outside, there are days outside, and the cycle is endless. And human life is short and limited, where can we care about eternity and infinity?
Many people reach the end of their lives when they reach the second realm. Pursue life, toil all my life, be proud all my life, and finally find that I have not reached my ideal, so I regret it all my life. But some people finally promoted themselves to the third realm of life through their own practice. Enlighten and return to nature. At this time, people will concentrate on what they should do and will not have any disputes with others. Let you roll in the world of mortals, and I will be cool and hearty. In the face of worldly things, laugh it off. What's wrong with it? At this time, people look at the mountains and see the mountains. Water is water. Exactly: people are people, and you don't have to be a man deliberately; The world is the world, there is no need to be careful; It is also a real life and life.