Mothers' methods of educating their children to become talents
1, let the child have a good figure. It is our basic wish to make our children physically and mentally healthy, which is also the basic guarantee for us to do anything. Therefore, in terms of food, clothing, housing and transportation, it is necessary to provide children with better protection, strengthen nutrition, adhere to scientific and reasonable exercise, cultivate a sound personality and let children develop physically and mentally.
2. Let children have good moral quality. As an excellent person, you should have good moral quality. Honesty, trustworthiness, integrity, kindness and other excellent qualities, parents should set a good example for their children, actively guide and educate them, so that their children have good moral qualities and are loved and welcomed by people.
3. Let children develop good habits. As parents, we should strengthen the cultivation of children's good habits from an early age. Starting with the habit of sitting, walking, eating and wearing, simple study habits such as writing and reading, teach children how to do it, correct bad places in time, educate them, and gradually form good habits, so that children can stand on their own feet and benefit for life.
4. Cultivate children's hobbies. Not many hobbies. Parents should pay attention to their children. When they find out what talents their children have and do well, they should actively praise and guide them and focus on cultivating one or two hobbies. Children with talent can do it well. If he works hard, he can do better, excel and become a talent.
5. Let children learn to communicate. As a person, in this society, we are not isolated individuals, we have to deal with people around us. Parents should educate their children, be good at communicating with others, make friends, get along well with others and win-win cooperation. Great things are done by excellent teams.
6. Let children read more books and study hard. When children are young, we should guide them to read more books, cultivate their good habit of reading, read classics, and let children draw nutrition from books. This society needs each of us to constantly strengthen our study. Therefore, it is necessary to cultivate children's ability to love learning, especially self-study from an early age. If children have strong learning ability, they will definitely become the pillars of society.
7. Let children establish lofty ideals and beliefs. With ideals and beliefs, people can be full of motivation, can move forward positively, and can work hard for their ideals, make positive progress and finally achieve great success. Therefore, let children have ideals since childhood, and then they can continue to work hard for their ideals, so that they can go further and fly higher.
Parents' experience in educating their children to become talents.
First, parents should be willing to sacrifice. In fact, the lifestyles of parents and children are in conflict. In the eyes of parents, home is a place to rest and have fun after hard work, while in the eyes of children, home is a place to do homework and prepare for the next day's exam. So it is possible that parents may watch TV while their children are doing their homework, and the good opportunity to educate their children will be missed. Moreover, most parents are unwilling to do the cultivation work, thinking that it is the work of the school, and parents send their children to various extracurricular courses. In fact, they want to be with their parents most, so they need to think twice before giving birth.
Parents must create an environment for their children to concentrate on their studies and set an example, so it is inevitable to sacrifice their children's lifestyle. Some jobs are ideal for parents, while others can't be helped or done well by schools, such as morality and developing judgment. In my opinion, there are three kinds of jobs that parents should cultivate their children from an early age, because they may change their children's fate, cultivate their reading interest, communication skills and deal with setbacks.
Parents should not treat their children as pets or toys in order to satisfy their own psychology, and forget their responsibility for discipline.
Second, reject material and enjoyable life. If you want to get good grades, you must stay away from TV and playing video games, including surfing the Internet, because they are static and passive activities, and long-term habits will dampen your creative motivation. And now the video games are so wonderful that you will feel bored and unable to concentrate after reading them. Parents must guide their children so that they are willing to give up most of their entertainment for reading.
Third, we should have good communication channels with children. To master children's mentality, it is necessary to establish communication channels with children. Although children meet their parents every day, few parents and children have an interactive conversation for more than 15 minutes. "I found that my children and I can only communicate in bed by whispering. We have the same language and jokes, so they will tell me boldly whether they are happy or depressed." Communication channels vary from person to person, and a mother can communicate freely with her daughter in the shower.
Fourth, training is concentrated. If children can't keep their concentration for 30 minutes in a row, it will be difficult for them to absorb what they are learning. I have been training Shi Jun to read since I was three or four years old. It starts with 20 minutes and is extended by 10 minutes every year. At the age of 18, he can read 1 hour continuously, and then take a break before reading. Now his greatest advantage is that he can sit at his desk 10 hours every day. In addition, the yeast food that my wife began to eat in the first half of pregnancy basically does not contain any additives and artificial colors, so as not to affect the fetal brain development and damage the concentration.
Fifth, arrange teaching materials according to children's brain development. It was difficult to teach Shi Jun math before he was 7 years old. Later, it was found that children are more likely to enter the brain with information about body movements, emotions, memories and images, so we should use the above channels to impart knowledge and concepts. Only parents can master children's memories, emotions and some actions, so parents will get twice the result with half the effort. Parents casually say a word to their children every day, which actually affects his confidence, courage and psychological state in dealing with others in the future.
How do parents guide their children to become talents?
First, cultivate children's hobbies.
Interest is the best teacher for children. Pan Wei, a famous psychologist, thinks that "interest is the most active component in learning motivation". Parents should be good at discovering children's hobbies, stimulating his interest and scientifically developing his IQ and EQ. Children are naive, active and curious. They are naive and imaginative, and often have strange questions. Children's learning characteristics are perceptual drive, interest orientation and habit of mechanical memory. Parents should respect their children's characteristics, follow the trend and protect their childlike innocence. Yu Xiang children in our college like drawing, love talking and have a lively personality. Every time I come to the Academy, I have a happy class and play with the children. How to stimulate children's interest in learning? Psychologists have said that games are the best way for children to learn. Playing games allows children to play in middle schools and schools, thus inspiring and opening their minds. Games can help children find a sense of accomplishment and pride, and then stimulate their self-confidence and self-motivation. Tell your children that you are the best!
Second, promote the formation of children's habits and manners.
Let's talk about habits first. Habit is an inherent behavior of individuals, with strong consciousness. Good study habits and living habits make people benefit for life. When we were in middle school, the teacher told us that "good habits are half the battle". Childhood education is the enlightenment of life. The character and conduct formed in this period affect people's life. As parents, we should set an example by ourselves and set an example for our children. First of all, parents should regulate their daily behaviors and habits and have no bad hobbies. In order to set a good example for children. Parents are children's first teachers, and their words and deeds directly affect children's cognition. Children will unconsciously imitate their parents' behavior, so parents should pay attention to their own image and set up a correct mirror for their children! Let's talk about etiquette again. China is a country of etiquette. Interpersonal communication emphasizes reciprocity, generosity, modesty, elegance and politeness. It is necessary to educate children to learn to be filial to their parents, respect teachers, unite with classmates, be friendly to others, and be modest when things go wrong. In family life, my wife and I demand that we should be polite in writing, especially respect our elders, and ask them to learn civilized terms, such as: thank you, hello, goodbye, nice to meet you, sorry, never mind, and so on. In this way, you can see the growth of children, so teaching and guidance are inseparable.
Third, pay attention to both hands in extracurricular classes.
Education can't rely on only one side, it needs the joint efforts and cooperation of parents and teachers. But at present, family education is a weak link in China's education. Only by strengthening family education and overcoming the disadvantages of school education can the quality of quality education be improved. Timely communication between parents and children can feed back children's academic performance and understand their ideological trends. Parents can ask their children about what happened at school and learn new knowledge, such as "What new knowledge did you learn from the teacher today", "What interesting things happened at school", "What games did you play today", "Did the teacher teach children's songs" and "What new partners did you meet".
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