Why does Shen Fang hate Shen Bainian? In fact, this can be seen from Shen Bainian's influential eyes. No matter what the reason was at the beginning, since he chose to sever his father-son relationship with Shen Fang in the newspaper, he should not lick his face when Shen Fang made great efforts to let him go home to save face, nor should he denounce Lin Shen and let him take Shen Fang home anyway.
Being awakened by the same picture is enough to prove how much influence what happened at that time had on Shen Fang. Shen Fang hates his father, Shen Bainian, because he had an unfortunate childhood, and his father is the incarnation of the devil in his heart. Because of the shrapnel on his head, Shen Fang often wakes up from nightmares. What he experiences in his dreams is the past that he wants to forget most and put in his deepest heart. He didn't want to think about it, but he was repeatedly tortured by these past events.
Shen Fang's dream is fixed almost every time. War, death and the misfortunes of childhood often wake him up because his unfortunate father is beating him. My brother and my mother can't pull him down. My brother protected him, so my father hit my brother. My mother loves their brothers dearly and protects them with her body. However, their father never stopped his actions because of his wife's persuasion. He lashed Shen Fang's mother with a whip. In order to protect her two sons, her mother was beaten by Shen Bainian. Later, when her mother died, Shen Fang felt that it had a lot to do with her father's domestic violence.
Of course, if his father Shen Bainian only abused their mother and son, Shen Fang could bear it. What he can't stand is that his father has been educating his two brothers like a gentleman, but he has found another woman to live outside behind his mother's back, just like living away from home. It is because of the woman outside that Shen Bainian went home and beat his son, and his indifference to his wife became more serious. Shen Fang's mother couldn't stand the mental and physical blow, so she couldn't afford to get sick and died.
The death of his mother was a fatal blow to Shen Fang, because all the warmth of his childhood was given by his mother. Now that his mother has passed away, what has this family left him? Just then, Shen Bainian arranged a suitable marriage for Shen Fang, hoping that they would get married soon. The girl engaged to Shen Fang is Yao Bijun. Shen Bainian was once ashamed of the Yao family. He asked Shen Fang to marry Yao Bijun just to let Yao Bijun's brother who died because of himself close his eyes.
Shen Fang doesn't want to marry Yao Bijun, not because of Yao Bijun, but because of Shen Bainian. In Shen Fang's boyhood, his father was a devil. He didn't like or accept everything about his father. Of course, including the marriage arranged by his father, he felt that he had no obligation to atone for his father. So, on their wedding day, Shen Fang escaped marriage. He returned the name Shen Feng to his father, named himself Shen Fang, and then entered the military school. In this way, the first class is eight years, and Shen Fang has grown from a young boy to an excellent intelligence officer of our party. However, his hatred for his father did not fade with the passage of time, but became more serious. He hates his father, so he is unwilling to accept and acknowledge the marriage arranged by his father.
Later, after Shen Fang was released from prison, he was promoted to the rank of official. Shen Bainian specially hosted a celebration banquet for him, and planned to introduce Yao Bijun as his wife at the celebration banquet. But Shen Fang attended with the dancer Mary, which made Shen Bainian feel ashamed. Shen Fang originally brought Mary here on purpose to avoid marrying Yao Bijun. At that time, Yao Bijun's brother was killed in an unjust case, and the person in charge of this case was Shen Bainian. In order to make up for the mistakes of that year, Shen Bainian decided to marry his sons Shen Fang and Yao Bijun at an early age.
Shen Fang left Shenyang because he was engaged to Yao Bijun. To put it bluntly, the main reason why Shen Fang refused to admit this engagement was because of his father. Because this engagement was arranged by his father, and what Shen Fang hates most is his own father. If Shen Fang admits the engagement, it also means that he can forgive his father Shen Bainian and acquiesce that everything Shen Bainian did to his mother was right.
Shen Fang denied that he was engaged to Yao Bijun for work reasons. In fact, from the beginning, we knew that Shen Fang's real identity was an agent lurking in the military system. For the sake of work safety and confidentiality, refusing or not acknowledging the engagement is Shen Fang's best choice, which is responsible for others and for * * *.