Many parents think that giving their children to the teacher's full-time care can make them better involved in their studies, so they send children below 13 (that is, children in kindergartens and primary schools) to full-time care schools.
I don't know that this practice is very unfavorable for the establishment of a harmonious parent-child relationship, because parents missed the best parent-child companionship period. Don't believe that I have friends around me, because I grew up among my grandparents' parents, so I can be said to be a left-behind child. It was not until junior high school that I was taken back by my parents. As a result, my children have never said a word to their parents since they got married, and even just informed their parents.
If parents feel that they can't educate their children, especially when they can't help their children with their homework, they may wish to ask for foreign aid. Instead of spending money to let children live on campus, it is better to use this money to ask a tutor for independent counseling. Maybe the study effect is better than living on campus.
It is necessary to live in the country on family labor day. You can take your children to weed, grow vegetables, water flowers and do housework. Don't think that children are "delicate" and not suitable for doing these things. On the contrary, children's independent ability needs to be cultivated from an early age.
In particular, many parents spoil their children and don't let them do anything except study. This kind of education is just a waste. There are many advantages for children to learn and get used to doing things by themselves. For example, labor can exercise their physique, cultivate their independent consciousness and strengthen their independent thinking ability. We often find that children who are good at doing things will have stronger autonomy and have their own goals and dreams! This is a very valuable quality for children.
Organize a parent-child game every day. In fact, parents don't need to think too complicated about parent-child games. Parent-child game is actually the process of parents playing with their children. Props and props have the same function. Children really enjoy the company of their parents. They can watch TV with their children, express their views on the plot and characters, or run together to see who runs faster. Participating in such activities can make the relationship between parents and children closer.
Reading books or keeping a diary with children is also a kind of accomplishment. If you feel that your ability is insufficient, you can study with your children and make progress together. When your children are doing homework and reading books, parents can also accompany them and set an example. This point need not be emphasized too much.
Any parents don't need to sell themselves short and think that they are not competent enough to educate their children well. In fact, children's requirements for their parents are really low, and companionship is the most important thing. As long as parents are accompanied, leave the rest to professionals.