Born as a man, you must do your best, live like a man and live openly. Even if you can't be a great man, being a responsible person is also a success.

Men are safe people.

A man? The word itself is very interesting, separated up and down, one? Tian? , one? Force? .

Frankly speaking, men in ancient times needed to work hard to support their families. But now men need to know more about its potential significance, and men should take responsibility.

Knowing responsibility and working hard is what men should look like.

Career is a responsibility, family is a concern, and children are an obligation. If these three fields are not well cultivated, even great talents will be in vain.

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Men's first area of responsibility: career

As a man, one of the most basic requirements is to be able to support his family.

Career is a person's life.

If a person is mediocre and has accomplished nothing in his life, his life will be too pale and bleak.

I remember Frank, a retired officer who smells like a woman. He kept his mouth shut and his mind was full of women.

But even though he danced tango with sexy and elegant girls, drank world-famous Jack Daniels glass after glass, and had a lot of money and Charlie as his guide dog, he was still determined to end his life.

Because of accidental blindness, Frank lost his career after retiring, and his life slipped from the peak of glory to the bottom, without expectations for life.

A man has many pursuits in his life, but his career must be a part he can't give up.

Old people often say that it is a man's responsibility to get married when he is old.

It is good for a man to be enterprising, because he is willing to try his best to provide a better life for his family.

We can't deny that there are many? Family chef? Our life is also very happy, but we also need to realize that it is because at home, the responsibilities that belong to men are borne by women.

A man without a career must be weak, easily tempted by the prosperity of the outside world, and naturally he will gradually forget his responsibilities.

This is a world where the law of the jungle prevails. If a person does not have excellent ability, he has no material source. If he loses material things, there is no need to talk about bringing home the bacon.

Daily necessities are the main theme of life. Only when a man can afford a career can he afford a family.

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Men's second area of responsibility: family.

From a boy to a man, it is very important to have a sense of responsibility.

It's easier to fight a mountain than to defend one. It takes only a moment of courage to enter marriage, but it takes two people to do their best to protect it.

A family will not be strong if it is completely supported by women.

In recent years, Jason Wu, an actor in Fire, has repeatedly broken through people's cognition of him.

Many people say that Jason Wu was a rich visionary all his life.

But in fact, Jason Wu's success today is inseparable from the support of his wife, Iola.

And his wife's support also comes from the fact that Jason Wu himself is a responsible and responsible man.

Jason Wu once said:

A man's standard should not be measured by his appearance, but by his temperament and his sense of responsibility. ?

Jason Wu's son is a premature baby. After he was born, he was sent to the intensive care unit. Seeing that his son's life was at stake, fearless Jason Wu realized cowardice. I am in pain. Call me if you need anything, not my children. ?

Since then, the iron-blooded tough guy has had another responsibility and concern. After work, as soon as he is free, he goes home to accompany his children and his wife, and even becomes a wife dazzler on Weibo.

He said:? I think a real man is not fighting fiercely with his wife, but learning to be mainly, and women should be cared for. ?

Huang Lei once said something similar:

Usually, men with low posture and soft bones at home who follow their daughter-in-law are generally stronger outside. Because such people are also confident.

On the other hand, if you feel great at home, you always take your daughter-in-law seriously. This kind of man is usually not very smart outside.

No one can succeed casually, but a man who is practical, earnest, warm and kind, loves his wife and children, and has the responsibility and responsibility can't even think about it.

What a good man needs is responsibility and responsibility.

In life, you don't panic when you encounter things, treat your family sincerely and respectfully, and have a home in your heart;

At work, even if you have nothing at the moment, you will be motivated;

In the family, there will be the ability to control the overall situation, clear goals and strong control ability.

In a family, if there is no responsible man, it will collapse like a tree without roots in the face of wind and rain.

In family life, the role of men is very important. Whether men are attentive or not is related to the happiness of a family.

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The third area of responsibility for men: children.

In family education, fathers are role models for children.

Children who grow up in fatherly love, dare to try and break through, often have a higher upper limit.

Ceng Jize, the son of Zeng Guofan, often followed his father's example and learned from him when he was a man and an official.

Later, he became an official in the DPRK and showed no less political ability than his father.

Zeng Guofan deals with foreign affairs? Tianjin teaching plan? Improper disposal, reputation fell to the bottom, Zeng Guofan realized the importance of diplomacy, so he often warned Ceng Jize to open his eyes to see the world.

Ceng Jize studied foreign languages and tried to get up from where his father fell.

Sure enough, Ceng Jize played an outstanding role in the later foreign affairs, defended the national interests in the territorial dispute in Xinjiang, and became the most famous diplomat in China at that time.

For society, many fathers are just ordinary people, but for children, fathers hold up their whole world and are heroes in their lives.

Father's love is like a mountain, representing the indomitable spirit, the breadth and depth of justice and strength, guarding children's childhood, making them feel safe and learning to be brave.

A father's greatest success is not to earn a golden hill and a silver hill for his family, but to overcome all difficulties and leave time for his children no matter how busy he is.

Men can't escape their responsibilities all their lives.

I can't afford the burden of career, family and children's role models. Even if I am a man, can I be considered an upright person?

A responsible man is a qualified man and worthy of a woman's life.

Born as a man, you must do your best, live like a man and live openly. Even if you can't be a great man, being a responsible person is also a success.

May every man be an indomitable spirit, stand up to pressure and suffering, and become a big umbrella to shelter his family from the wind and rain.