Introduction: The classic stories of Chinese studies about educating children are compiled by the training network of fresh graduates. Thank you for reading.

First, the mother bear protects her children.

Once upon a time, a female bear was hit by a hunter and sat motionless without falling to the ground. The hunter thought it was strange. He went forward and looked inside, and found that the mother bear was dead, just clutching a big stone. Why? It turns out that mother bear's children are playing with water in the stream under the stone. The mother bear is afraid that the falling stone will hit the little bear and cling to the stone.

Words of wisdom: Mother and child in the animal kingdom, regardless of life and death, love each other, love and filial piety to the extreme. Humans catch animals because of greed, and there is nothing more cruel in the world!

Second, the story of Shun

According to historical records, Shun's father was blind. After his biological mother died, his father married another wife and gave birth to a son. After the father likes his son, he always wants to kill Shun, and he will be severely punished if he encounters a small mistake. But Shun respects his parents, loves his younger brother and never slackens off. Shun Fei Ming, when they want to kill Shun, they can't find him, but when they need him, he is always waiting. Once, Shun climbed to the top of the granary and plastered it with mud. His father set fire to the granary below, but Shun protected himself with two hats and jumped off the granary like he had wings. Later, his father asked Shun to dig a well, and Shun cut a back road leading to other places on the wall in advance. When digging a deep well, my father and brother poured soil into the well together, trying to bury Shun alive, but Shun escaped from the back passage. They thought Shun would die, but when they saw that he was still alive, they hypocritically said, Where have you been? We miss you, don't we? They often try their best to harm Shun, but Shun forgets the past and serves his father and loves his brother as before. Later, when his fame spread far and wide, Emperor Yao knew about it, so he married both his daughters, gave them to him and surrendered to Shun every day.

In a word, Little Wisdom: My father was evil, my stepmother was duplicitous, my brother was unruly, and several people conspired to kill Shun. But Shun is filial to his parents and very friendly to his younger brother, and has never slackened off for many years. His virtue is lofty and admirable. Only with this kind of mind and persistence in morality can we gain the appreciation of our predecessors and become a respected and wise monarch.

Third, the son wants to raise and not kiss.

On his way to Qi, Confucius suddenly heard someone crying and his voice looked sad. Confucius said to the coachman, this cry, although it sounds sad, is not the sad sound of someone passing away at home! ? So, I ran to the front of the carriage to find the sound. Not far away, I saw an unusual man with a sickle and a leucorrhea, crying there, but not mourning. Confucius got off the bus and asked. Who are you, sir? The man replied? My name is Qiu Wuzi. ? Confucius asked: You are not in mourning now, why are you crying so sadly? Qiu Wuzi choked up and said: I made three mistakes in my life, but unfortunately I didn't realize it until my later years, but it's too late to regret it. ? Confucius asked: Can I hear your three shortcomings? I hope you can tell me, don't hide anything. ? Qiu Wuzi said sadly: I liked reading when I was young, but when I went everywhere to find teachers and friends and traveled around the world, my parents had died, which was my biggest mistake; In his prime, he served the king of Qi, but the king of Qi was arrogant and extravagant, and lost the hearts of the people. I didn't do my duty as a minister, which was the second biggest mistake. I have always attached great importance to friendship, but now my friends are separated, which is my third biggest mistake. ? Qiu Wuzi looked up at the sky and sighed:? The tree wants to be quiet, but the wind keeps blowing; The son wants to support his parents, but his parents are gone. The past will never come back, it is age; What I will never see again is my parents! Let me politely decline this world from now on! ? So, Qiu Wuzi threw away all his money. Confucius sighed and said to his disciples:? You should remember this matter, which is enough for our reference! ?

Words of little wisdom: every sincere and upright child has made a promise to his parents from the heart? Filial piety? I believe there will be a long time, I will come naturally, I will wear clothes and go back to my hometown to do my filial piety calmly. But forget the cruelty of time, the shortness of life, the kindness that can never be repaid, and the fragility of life itself. Filial piety is a fleeting attachment, a kind of happiness that cannot be copied, and an careless filial piety has become a past tense that generations hate. To be filial to your parents, you must hurry! When my parents were still alive.

Four, a house is not swept, why sweep the world?

In the Eastern Han Dynasty, there was a man named Chen Fan. He is knowledgeable and ambitious. When he was young, he studied hard and took the world as his responsibility. One day, his father's old friend Qin Xue came to see him. When he saw that the yard where he lived alone was overgrown with weeds and filthy, he said to him. Why don't you clean the room to entertain the guests? Chen Fan answered? When a man is a man, he should sweep the world and settle down! ? Qin Xue immediately asked:? Why can't you sweep the world without sweeping the house? Chen Fan listened and felt very reasonable. From then on, he began to pay attention to the little things around him and eventually became a famous minister.

Words of wisdom: great things must start with small things. "Disciples Rules" says:? The room is clean, the walls are clean, several cases are clean, and the ink and stone are correct. ? This means that the room should be clean and the walls should be kept clean. When reading, the pens, ink, paper, inkstone and other stationery on the desk should be placed neatly, and everything should be in order, so as to calm down and study.

Five, moved the killer.

In the Spring and Autumn Period, there was a bad king who was dissolute and heartless. He has a minister named Zhao, who is very loyal and often remonstrates with the monarch. The monarch was very impatient One day, he suddenly had a bad idea and hired a killer to kill Zhao. The killer's name is hoe (n? ), arrived at the Zhao family before dawn. At this time, Zhao has got up, put on his royal clothes, closed his eyes slightly, and waited for the morning. The killer was very moved and thought: a person who lives in peace and is respected is definitely the pillar of the country. If I kill him, I am disloyal, sorry for the country and sorry for the people; If you don't kill him, you will not believe in the Lord. If you don't believe in infidelity, how can you be a man in this world? Finally, he had to hit a tree and commit suicide.

Words of little wisdom: a person's dignity is as rational as law, and it can also produce such great power. "Disciples Rules" says:? The crown must be straight and the buttons must be tied with socks and shoes. ? It means: a person should dress neatly and not be neither fish nor fowl. You should also wear your hat straight, not sideways. If you have self-restraint, it can be reflected in your exterior.

Sixth, visit relatives.

In the Song Dynasty, there was a man named Cha (zhā). One day, he and his servant went to visit relatives far away with gifts. They were particularly hungry at noon because they forgot to bring dry food and could not find a place to eat. The servant suggested taking some food from the present. Cha Dao said:? How can this work? Because these gifts are for people, they are real things. How can we steal them? ? As a result, two people had to starve.

Xiao Zhi's famous saying: "Disciples Rules" says: If you use characters, be sure to ask clearly. Steal without asking. ? It means: if you borrow something from others, you must ask your master for it. If you take it without asking, it's stealing.

7. What are the benefits of talking too much?

There is such a record in Mozi: Qin Zi asked the teacher: How good is it? Mozi replied. Toad and frog, staying up late during the day, are thirsty and nobody cares. Look at that rooster. It crows on time at dawn. The whole world shakes and people get up early. What's the good of talking more? It's important to speak at the right time. ?

Xiao Zhi's famous saying: "Disciples Rules" says: It's better to talk less than to talk more, but the fact is, don't (n? Ng) What a coincidence. ? It means: people don't talk much at ordinary times, or they will slip up. If they talk too much, they can easily become a source of trouble. It is better to say something practical and meaningful at an appropriate time. Speak honestly and honestly, and don't cheat others with sweet words.

Eight, the old man sticks to cicadas

There is a story in Zhuangzi: once Confucius took his disciples to the State of Chu and passed through a forest on the way. In the forest, a hunchbacked old man is poking cicada with a bamboo pole. He sticks to cicadas easily, just like picking them up on the ground. Confucius asked: What a coincidence your behavior is! What's the trick? People say: I do have my own method. After five or six months of practice, I have piled two balls on the pole without falling, and there are few cases of missing balls. Fold three balls so that you don't miss more than once in ten times; Folding five balls without falling will be as easy as picking up cicadas on the beach. I stood still, like a broken stake, and my arm with a pole was like a dead branch. Although the world is vast and there are many things, I devote myself wholeheartedly to Cicada, never thinking about it, never looking around, and never changing my attention to Cicada because of all the complicated things. What can't I succeed? Finally, Confucius turned to his disciples and said, concentrate, and your skills can be perfected. Humpback always says that. ?

Words of wisdom: If a person can eliminate all external interference, concentrate and study hard, he can master an excellent skill.

Nine, the book is read a hundred times, and its meaning is self-evident (xi? n)

During the Three Kingdoms period, there was a man named Dong Yu in the state of Wei, who lived in poverty since childhood and ran around all day for a living. However, as long as he has free time, he sits down to study, so he is very knowledgeable. His brother laughed at him, but he didn't care. After a long time, he wrote two books and caused a sensation. People asked him what he knew about reading. He said:? Read a book a hundred times and you will understand its meaning (xi? n).？ People admire him and his reputation is getting bigger and bigger. People in the neighborhood came to ask for advice and asked him how he was studying. Dong Yu told them: "People who live in winter are in their leisure time; : night, after day; People in rainy days, in their leisure time. Learning should make use of three kinds of blanks: winter is a year, evening is a day, and rainy days are working days. Hearing this, people suddenly realized. I should have studied, studied and improved myself through all available time.

Words of wisdom: Now there are always people who find excuses to say: I am so busy during the day, so stressed at work, so tight in the pace of life, how can I have time to study? In fact, as long as you are willing to learn, time can be squeezed out. Einstein and Lu Xun said the same thing: the difference between people lies in their spare time. Famous? Three-eight theory? An ordinary adult's day should be divided into? Three eights? Eight hours of work, eight hours of sleep and eight hours of free time. The first two? Eight? Most people are the same and haven't changed much; The difference between people is how to spend the remaining eight hours.

Ten, deer milk to serve relatives

Tan (t? N) Zi, who is filial by nature, has always been highly regarded by people as the embodiment of virtue, talent, prestige and elegance. In our history? The story of China's twenty-four filial piety and Zanzi is a model. Tanzi's parents are old and weak, and both suffer from eye diseases. He was particularly sad and sought medical advice everywhere. I heard that deer milk can cure parents' eye diseases, so I took the deer to the mountains to mix. The hunter mistook him for a deer and was about to shoot him with an arrow. He shouted at once and told the truth. The hunter was very moved and wanted to get him some deer milk and escort him out of the mountain.

Xiao Zhi's famous saying: "Disciples Rules" says: Parents' orders, will you be lazy? Parents are ordered to act quickly and should not delay. This is also a filial piety to the mother. If you have this idea since childhood, once your parents are sick, you will be filial because of gratitude.

Eleven, Meng Mu shut down.

Mencius was very tired of learning when he was a child. One day he didn't want to study, so he fled home. Meng Mu happened to be weaving, and when he came back from playing truant, the weaving shuttle broke without saying a word, which meant that all the cloth that was about to be woven was destroyed. Mencius was very filial, so he knelt down and asked, why are you doing this? Meng Mu told him: Learning is not a day or two, just like weaving. I must start with a thread and weave a horse inch by inch. Only when cloth is woven into a horse can I make clothes. The same is true of reading. If you can't persevere and give up halfway like you, how can you become a talent in the future? If children today may not know how to reflect on themselves, throw a word to their mothers. This is your own business. ? After all, the foundation of the child is different. He woke up from a dream and suddenly realized that he was bent on studying and would never skip classes again. Later, he became a teacher after Confucius? A second-class saint

Xiao Zhi's famous saying: "Disciples Rules" says: Parents should respect, listen to what their parents teach, and be responsible and obedient. ? Blaming parents and elders should be a willingness to listen to parents' criticism and should also be regarded as a kind of teaching.

Twelve, in ancient times, there was a man named, who was famous for his filial piety. His mother died when he was nine years old. Since then, he has taken care of his father more carefully. In winter, he was afraid that his father would catch cold, so he got into the cold quilt first, warmed the quilt with his body, and then helped his father to go to bed. Unlike now, when he turns on the electric blanket and the heater, he can only use his own body at that time. In summer, in order to let his father fall asleep quickly at night, he cooled down first, and then invited his father to sleep. Huang Xiang had such filial piety since he was a child, which also made him achieve something in life and study. Later, he became a good filial official. A Chinese Odyssey, Jiangxia Huang Xiang? , is listed as? Twenty-four filial piety.

Words of wisdom: Only by treating parents with filial piety can parents get good filial piety; Treat all beings with compassion, and all beings will be rewarded. Do things in the world with filial piety, and the world will become particularly beautiful because of your existence.

Thirteen. Landmark huaiju

During the Three Kingdoms period, there was a man named Lu Ji who was very filial to his parents. When he was 6 years old, he once visited Yuan Shujia. Yuan Shu ordered oranges to be served to him. He didn't eat, but quietly hid in his arms. Then, he bowed to Yuan Shu to leave. When he kowtowed, three oranges rolled out of his arms. Shu Yuan laughed. You don't have enough. You must accept it. He replied: I have never seen such a good orange. I can't bear to eat it. I want to show it to my mother. ? Yuan Shu was greatly surprised. A 6-year-old boy knows how to restrain himself and honor his elders, which is really commendable. He lamented:? Xiaolulang has such a moral character and will become the pillar of the newspaper family in the future! ? Indeed, according to relevant historical records, Luji has made great contributions to the country when he grew up.

Words of wisdom: it is no accident that Lu Ji knew how to take care of his family when he was six years old. In fact, it was due to good family education. In addition to his parents setting an example, he also studied classics, and the intentions and virtues of countless ancient sages took root in his heart from an early age.

Fourteen-year-old Jue Yuan advised his father.

In ancient times, there was a child named Sun who was filial to his parents and respected his elders from an early age, but his father was extremely filial to his grandfather. One day, his father suddenly put his old and sick grandfather in a basket, sent him to the mountains and threw him away. Sun took his father and cried on his knees, but his father ignored him. He had a brainwave and said, since dad wants to throw grandpa away, I can't help it, but I have a request. ? When my father asked him what he wanted, he said? I want to bring it back. ? Father is puzzled:? What do you need this for? Because when you get old, I'll throw you away with it. ? Hearing this, my father was shocked: How could you say such a thing! ? Sun Jueyuan replied:? The father educates his son, and the son educates his son. ? My father thought about it, but he didn't dare to take the old man home for the elderly as he thought before.

Xiao Zhi's famous saying: "Disciples Rules" says: I had a kiss, and my advice made me more. I like my color and my voice. ? If parents are careless in their words and deeds, it is difficult for them to communicate. From the perspective of filial piety, children should use euphemistic tone to persuade him to stop bad behavior, not sharp language and rude attitude.

Fifteen, the Chinese emperor Shi Mu

Liu Heng, the emperor of China, is famous for his filial piety. When his mother is ill, he has to deal with state affairs both inside and outside, and at the same time he has to accompany her. When taking medicine, he always tastes it himself before feeding it to his mother. After his mother was ill for three years, he stayed with her for three years and always took care of her.

Words of wisdom: As a person, it is important to pay attention to filial piety and take care of parents at ordinary times. When they are sick and need comfort, even a kind word will make them happy. We need an education of love, which should be born in everyone's heart.

Sixteen, Li Ji burns a beard

There was a deputy prime minister named Li Ji in the Tang Dynasty. Once his sister is ill, he will take care of her himself. When cooking porridge for my sister, the flame burned his beard. I couldn't bear it, and advised him: You have so many concubines, why do you have to work so hard? Li Ji immediately replied:? I don't trust you to be taken care of because you are very ill. You are old now, and I am old myself. Even if I want to cook porridge for you all the time, I don't have much chance. ? It's commendable that Li Jican treated his sister like this.

Words of wisdom: In ancient times, people regarded all people as brothers and sisters. Although I can't do this now, I should at least get along with my family. If you can't give this love, it's really hard to say what the world will become.

Seventeen years old, Bo Shi Shepherd.

Bo Shi was a disciple of Confucius. His parents died when he was a child, and there was only one younger brother at home. When his younger brother came of age, Bo Shi gave all his land and real estate to his younger brother, and only took 100 sheep to graze on the mountain. After more than ten years, his sheep have reached 1000, and he has bought his own farmhouse. Bo Shi gave it to his younger brother many times because his younger brother was just playful and his family's property was exhausted, which was praised by his neighbors. It can be seen that he is a gentleman who values righteousness over jun.

Xiao Zhi's famous saying: "Disciples Rules" says: Light property, resentment, forbearance in words, and self-destruction in anger. ? For things other than money, we must see that if we don't cling to property, the struggle between brothers will not happen.

Eighteen, bauhinia tree

Once upon a time, there was an old man named Tian. After his death, his three sons decided to separate. They divided the property into three equal parts, and all the other properties have been divided, except the bauhinia tree, which is difficult to deal with. They discussed it until midnight and agreed to cut the tree into three pieces the next day, one for each piece. But this tree seems to be spiritual, and it was dead when it was cut down the next day. The three brothers were surprised and thought it was a hint of heaven and earth ghosts and gods, so they decided not to divide the trees, and the bauhinia carving came back to life. Deeply moved, they put the separated property together and never mentioned the separation again.

Words of wisdom: There are many mysteries between man and nature that are invisible to the naked eye. If discord between people leads to disputes and wars, then there will be bad omen in the outside world, such as wind and rain, immature grains and so on. If human beings want to live a happy life, they can't get it for money, but they should adjust themselves in self-cultivation and follow the eight-part series.

Nineteen. What's the hurry to blow each other up?

During the Three Kingdoms period, after Cao Pi proclaimed himself emperor, he deliberately made things difficult for his younger brother Cao Zhi because he was jealous of his talent: let him become a poem in seven steps. What's the topic? Dude, but you can't show up? Brother? If you can't do it, behead. Fortunately, Cao Zhi was brilliant and eloquent, and soon wrote a poem:? Boiled beans, beans cry in the kettle, this is the same root. There is a metaphor in the poem: beans are cooked in a pot, and beans are used to cook beans, so beans cry in the pot: we are born from the same root, so why bother to kill each other to allude to Cao Pi's cruelty. Cao Pi felt ashamed after hearing this, so he stopped killing Cao Zhi.

Words of wisdom: Throughout thousands of years of history, among the descendants of emperors, there are countless examples of brothers and sisters vying for fame and fortune, and few of them live in harmony and have come and gone. The only way to live happily in this world is to understand the truth of being a man. You can do well if you don't understand, and you can't get the life you want if you don't do well. This is the law.

Twenty years old, Chengmen Sydney

In the Song Dynasty, there was a scholar named Shi Yang. He has great respect for his teachers and is always open-minded and eager to learn. ? Chengmen Sydney? This is a short story about his respect for teachers and hard work. Shi Yang worked very hard as a teenager. Later, after winning the Jinshi, he refused to be an official, continued to learn from the teacher and studied hard. At that time, Hao Cheng (h? Brother Cheng Yi is a famous scholar in China. Shi Yang first learned a lot from Cheng Hao. Four years later, Cheng Hao died. In order to continue his study, he took Cheng Yi as his teacher. At this time, Shi Yang was 40 years old, but he was still modest and respected his teachers. One day, the sky was overcast and a heavy snow was coming. After lunch, Shi Yang asked his classmate You Zuo (Z) to go to the Cheng family in order to ask the teacher a question. The doorman said that Cheng Yi was taking a nap. They didn't want to disturb the teacher's nap, so they stood silently outside the door and waited. There is a heavy snow in the sky, and it is getting bigger and bigger. They stood outside the door, snowflakes flying over their heads, shivering with cold, waiting outside. After a long time, Cheng Yi woke up and realized that Youzuo had been waiting in the snow outside for a long time, so he called them in quickly. At this point, the snow outside the door has accumulated more than a foot deep. Shi Yang's excellent moral character of respecting teachers and valuing morality has always been praised by people. It is precisely because he can respect teachers, ask for advice with an open mind and learn from them.

Step quickly and finally become a well-known scholar in the country. People who came to him for advice from all directions came all the way to worship him as a teacher. what do you think? Mr. Kameyama? .

Words of wisdom: Teachers are people who give students a second life. In the process of learning, from illiteracy to erudition, all teachers have watered the flowers of our knowledge with hard sweat. Learn to respect those who give you knowledge and change your destiny. If you were not a teacher, you might never know the beauty of knowledge.

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