As parents, we need to learn to guide our children to express their unhappiness and let them feel understanding and support. In the process of education, we should not be too sensitive, but should give children proper space and freedom.

Distinguish between two situations

Conflicts between children are common, but we need to clearly distinguish between the two situations. One is that a child deliberately bullies others, which is often related to family education problems. In this case, we should communicate with the parents of the other party, ask the other party to apologize and give a warning. There is also a situation where children play and collide. In this case, parents don't have to intervene excessively, so that children can learn to handle conflicts by themselves.

solve a problem

Every child may meet so-called "bad classmates" at school. As parents, our goal is to help children solve problems and resolve conflicts, not revenge. At the same time, it is necessary to consider the influence of the way adopted on the child's personality and interpersonal relationship.

Dealing with the habit of fighting

For children who have the habit of hitting people, appropriate punishment is necessary, such as canceling things they like. In addition, "empathy training" can be carried out to guide children to understand the feelings of others by asking questions.

Face bullying

Finally, we should educate our children not to swallow their pride or feel afraid when they are bullied or see others being bullied. Instead, they should stay calm and ask for help and support. Let's work together to create a safer and friendlier growing environment for children.