The author of this book is Wen Yang, the chairman of Shandong Cai Ying College, who has the title of "Top Ten Outstanding Mothers in China".
She trained her son Yang Xia to be a doctor at Cambridge University. When people ask "why do children get such good grades", the answers are "I don't study" and "I don't care", and the children themselves say "I grew up playing".
Is it a joke or a fact? After reading this book, you will understand what is behind this "unlearned" and "regardless", and you will know that "happy growth" and "academic Excellence" can have both.
When the author was young, he read many monographs on pedagogy and psychology. The scientific educational concept has been internalized as a way of thinking and quality of her mother. She knows and understands the children's world.
It is only a natural result that children grow up successfully in a natural and happy family atmosphere.
Wen Yang's thoughts on educating children are not out of date today, and the educational thoughts and life insights in the book are worth reading!
1, I agree that "quality education" is a quality that people can benefit for life after going through some things.
Being a mother needs a work permit, not a passive parent. It is suggested that new mothers read more books on children's psychology and children's education to understand their children's real world and real needs, instead of giving them the so-called "education" as a matter of course.
3. Life is education. A mother's ability to love includes the ability to grasp the educational opportunities in life again and again, and the ability to integrate fleeting things of educational value into the education of children.
The education of children is conscious but unplanned, conscious, and it is the educational value that can grasp the small events in daily life; No plan means random education in life.
I agree that education is not only limited to the accumulation of knowledge, but also an awakening of human soul.
4. Playing is also learning. The more children play, the more they can manage their time, have fun and learn efficiently. Nowadays, children are giving up simple recreational activities such as climbing trees and building sand castles, which are essential for their growth.
5. Reading is a habit. This habit is formed as early as possible in one's life. Whether children have good reading habits has a lot to do with parents' behavior habits.
6. Children don't have to be too obedient. The more parents respect their children, the more active and obedient they will be on some major issues.
7. There is not much difference between people's achievements in knowledge, but morality, good social skills and personality charm are the keys to a successful and happy life.
Parents' parenting style, family atmosphere and attitude towards life will make children change slowly.
Let's accompany our children through their growing years with warmer and more scientific love.