Measure 1 of adolescent sex education: Help boys to establish a correct view of gender.
Although a person's sex is determined at the moment of fertilization, at the psychological level, the psychological development of sex is from 3 years old to adulthood and reaches its peak in adolescence. Children around 3 years old will know whether they are boys or girls, but they will also ask curiously why girls have long hair and skirts to play house wine, while boys have short hair and trousers to play horse-riding fighting games. This is the beginning of children's gender psychological development. At this stage, mothers should pay attention to two principles, one is to let boys know how to protect their bodies, and the other is to let boys have a positive image of all parts of their bodies.
Research shows that, as an only child, boys are favored by their parents and elders since childhood, seldom engage in outdoor sports, like watching cartoons and playing computer games at home, are used to jumping and illogical thinking, and do not know how to feel the people and things around them, so they tend to become selfish and indifferent. Some boys have reached marriageable age and still think like children. They have no sense of "shoulders" at all and can't bear the heavy burden. So mothers should cultivate boys' gender awareness as soon as possible.
Adolescent sex education measure 2: Tell boys about sex naturally.
Let mothers and boys know their bodies, and don't be as serious and orthodox as teachers teach students. There are many natural ways in life. For example, to bathe a boy, you can tell him the names and functions of various parts of your body and turn bathing into an interesting game. When he needs to change clothes in public, tell him not to change clothes in public, but to find a sheltered place, because some parts of his body are private. In this way, boys can naturally know their gender and realize the differences between men and women.
It is natural for mothers to tell their children about sex in simple language as much as possible, so that children can have a correct and scientific understanding of the body. Mother will mention the words "breast" and "penis" generously, just as naturally as telling him that this is an apple and that is a banana. Of course, at the same time, you must tell your child that some parts of the human body are private and privacy cannot be exposed, otherwise it will be embarrassing. First of all, the mother should correct her thoughts, so as to give the boy the correct guidance. In fact, boys' questions about sex are as simple as "What to eat tonight". Mom only needs a very intuitive answer, and too many in-depth answers will confuse the boy's thinking.
Adolescent sex education measure 3: conduct sex moral education for boys.
Early sex education is related to the healthy growth of boys' body and mind, and also to the stability of family and society. Sex education includes many aspects such as sex physiology, sex psychology, sex morality and sex ethics, among which sex morality is a very important part. Morality is the sum of social norms that regulate sexual behavior between men and women. It can maintain the stability of social order and ensure the normal progress of social life. Usually, the content of sexual morality can be summarized as follows: sexual moral norms; Correct views on love, chastity and fertility. Its core is love and respect.
Mothers should educate boys to respect the privacy of themselves and others. Boys should be instilled with the concept of privacy from the beginning of sex education. The mother should tell the boy that the genitals are a person's private parts, and no one else has the right to see or touch this part without permission. Mothers should send positive messages to boys through nonverbal behaviors, such as the principles of mutual respect, loyalty, sharing housework, respecting the old and loving the young, helping others, being polite, being serious and responsible, being honest and trustworthy. This is the best education for children.