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Is the fundamental reason for raising children with inferiority complex the "frustration education" of parents in China?
Now, because of the misunderstanding that "children should be raised well", many parents take care of everything for their children when they are young. As a result, children often can't suffer any setbacks in the process of growing up, and they don't have the ability to take care of themselves independently, even children who don't have the ability to take care of themselves.

However, many parents are worried that their children are too spoiled, and they will carry out "poverty" education for their children, hoping that their children can understand that life is not easy. But often many children educated in this way have inferiority complex and are not confident! In life, we often hear parents say in front of their children that "every pill is hard", "Don't spend money indiscriminately" and "We have a hard time supporting our families" ... In fact, these can't make their children richer, more obedient and happier.

In the process of educating our children, the material conditions can meet the children appropriately within the permitted scope! Remember: proper satisfaction! If you can't meet it, you can tell your child directly: I can't meet your requirements! But if we work together, we can finish it sometime in the future. If this requirement is met, children can realize that although the conditions at home are not good, they can be improved through hard work. Let children also experience the joy of making money.

It is not difficult to make children happy and spiritually satisfied. What children want may be a favorite sticker, a toy or a doll, and they will be very happy when they get it.

Many high-value things may not be liked by children. On the contrary, if children repeatedly emphasize brand and price, they will gradually develop a psychology of comparing! How much did you spend on me this time? Be sure to buy something better than this next time, at least the same as this time!

Which parents satisfied their children in childhood, and which children will be mobile and not persistent in the future. For the sake of children's rich spirit in the future, please take back the heaviness and lack in our lives and pass on hope and confidence to children.